Hello everybody,
Im 19 and currently having an erection problem. You could say I lost my virginity this past year although I did go limp at the time. It was with a girlfriend although she claimed that she didn't have much time to see me so i only saw her about every 2 weeks or so. I was a little mad at her at the time for the excuses she would give me about not seeing me however I was eager to experience sex so I really didn't pay much attention to it at the time.
Before we tried having sex I got erections all the time. Woke up in the morning with one. Got one in class (college student). All of that. Before I met her I would masturbate once a day but no more than that. If I had to give a range per week it would be about 3 to 7 times a week depending on how busy I was. Everytime I masturbated it was to something visually stimulating. I was never into hardcore porn but I do like the stuff before sexual intercourse. Everytime I did see her before we tried having sex I would constantly have a boner (held hands, danced, kissed, hugged, etc.). At first when we were going out I stopped masturbating for about two weeks until she got me mad and I started up again (lame excuse). After we tried having sex the first time I didn't see her much and I continued masturbating (3 times in a week or so) until I saw her two weeks later. We tried again, like the first time I put on a condom and rubbed the guy so he would stay up longer. By the way, both times she was on top. She put him in her and we went at it for about 10 seconds before he just went soft again. Although she wasnt my girlfriend at the time the girl was fairly understanding. We discussed a few things it could be (Overmasturbation, Maybe I wasnt attracted to her, Shy, etc.). I was infuriated at the whole situation plus I live in a room full of guys who just love talking about how well they f*ck there gfs. The girl was atleast a 6 or 7 out of 10 in my mind although sometimes I feel like the BS that she put me through sometimes turned me off of her.
After a while i started reading posts like these. I got that 50+ one a day multi vitamin (120mg of Ginkgo Biloba and 150 percent zinc). Ive been using it for the past week and a half or so. Ive always been a fairly healthy eater plus the multi's probably dont hurt much. I excercise atleast twice a week. I played varsity sports in HS. I honestly have a fairly built body. I recently stopped masturbating for 2 weeks to see how my erections would hold up. I must say that if I rub on the guy a few seconds he gets real hard but I can lose him within 30 seconds or so. If I think hard enough I can keep him up for 2 minutes or so. I dont really talk to the girl much anymore so Im not sure who I can really test things out with. I do wake up with a morning wood every other day or more although some days hes harder than others. I was pretty anxious the first and second time i tried to have sex but Im really not sure what to do.
I masturbated again today after 2 weeks but this time without any kind of visual stimulation. I think about this alot. I think about good sex alot. Im very confident that this is something that can be fixed. Then again the word Erectile Dysfunction pops in my head randomly throughout the day. I think about the girl a lot. Then again I think about other girls I could get with in the future as well. I really want to actually experience sex not just with my hand because the real thing sounds soo much better.
I dont smoke. Drink occasionally. At the most once a week.
Still get firm erection over softcore videos.
Dad had high blood pressure. Not sure if he still does.
I know this is long but I felt like I had to give all the info. I could to get any kind of help. Any suggestions? Thanks.
Im 19 and currently having an erection problem. You could say I lost my virginity this past year although I did go limp at the time. It was with a girlfriend although she claimed that she didn't have much time to see me so i only saw her about every 2 weeks or so. I was a little mad at her at the time for the excuses she would give me about not seeing me however I was eager to experience sex so I really didn't pay much attention to it at the time.
Before we tried having sex I got erections all the time. Woke up in the morning with one. Got one in class (college student). All of that. Before I met her I would masturbate once a day but no more than that. If I had to give a range per week it would be about 3 to 7 times a week depending on how busy I was. Everytime I masturbated it was to something visually stimulating. I was never into hardcore porn but I do like the stuff before sexual intercourse. Everytime I did see her before we tried having sex I would constantly have a boner (held hands, danced, kissed, hugged, etc.). At first when we were going out I stopped masturbating for about two weeks until she got me mad and I started up again (lame excuse). After we tried having sex the first time I didn't see her much and I continued masturbating (3 times in a week or so) until I saw her two weeks later. We tried again, like the first time I put on a condom and rubbed the guy so he would stay up longer. By the way, both times she was on top. She put him in her and we went at it for about 10 seconds before he just went soft again. Although she wasnt my girlfriend at the time the girl was fairly understanding. We discussed a few things it could be (Overmasturbation, Maybe I wasnt attracted to her, Shy, etc.). I was infuriated at the whole situation plus I live in a room full of guys who just love talking about how well they f*ck there gfs. The girl was atleast a 6 or 7 out of 10 in my mind although sometimes I feel like the BS that she put me through sometimes turned me off of her.
After a while i started reading posts like these. I got that 50+ one a day multi vitamin (120mg of Ginkgo Biloba and 150 percent zinc). Ive been using it for the past week and a half or so. Ive always been a fairly healthy eater plus the multi's probably dont hurt much. I excercise atleast twice a week. I played varsity sports in HS. I honestly have a fairly built body. I recently stopped masturbating for 2 weeks to see how my erections would hold up. I must say that if I rub on the guy a few seconds he gets real hard but I can lose him within 30 seconds or so. If I think hard enough I can keep him up for 2 minutes or so. I dont really talk to the girl much anymore so Im not sure who I can really test things out with. I do wake up with a morning wood every other day or more although some days hes harder than others. I was pretty anxious the first and second time i tried to have sex but Im really not sure what to do.
I masturbated again today after 2 weeks but this time without any kind of visual stimulation. I think about this alot. I think about good sex alot. Im very confident that this is something that can be fixed. Then again the word Erectile Dysfunction pops in my head randomly throughout the day. I think about the girl a lot. Then again I think about other girls I could get with in the future as well. I really want to actually experience sex not just with my hand because the real thing sounds soo much better.
I dont smoke. Drink occasionally. At the most once a week.
Still get firm erection over softcore videos.
Dad had high blood pressure. Not sure if he still does.
I know this is long but I felt like I had to give all the info. I could to get any kind of help. Any suggestions? Thanks.
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