hello, i am a 17 year old male. i recently lost my virginity and have come across a problem in the last week or so. i believe i have low testosterone or just cannot get a normal erection. the only time i do is when i awake in the morning, but other than that i have no desire, nor any sex drive. i've tried everything, porn, whatever, but i cannot get it fully erect.
i had sex under the influence (i was drunk) and never finished and could not perform. maybe i was spooked? is this something that could be psychological? i saw a doctor the other day and she was more concerned upon my usage with alcohol and drugs (pot) versus this. i've never had a problem during the times i was using and don't think it is a factor. i have since then not smoked/drank for fear, but i'm still worried. what are some steps i can take to get normal?
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i had sex under the influence (i was drunk) and never finished and could not perform. maybe i was spooked? is this something that could be psychological? i saw a doctor the other day and she was more concerned upon my usage with alcohol and drugs (pot) versus this. i've never had a problem during the times i was using and don't think it is a factor. i have since then not smoked/drank for fear, but i'm still worried. what are some steps i can take to get normal?
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There is such a thing as not being stimulated as easily as some other people. Using drugs could be affecting your preformance but it would not surprise me either way. good luck
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Well that was a long time ago that you posted that. I wonder how you're getting on?
Best to go easy on yourself, thats for sure. I had this issue for a fair while and randomly discoverd a meditation technique that rid me of the problem. Completely and utterly. Its called Vippassana - there are a few centres scattered throughout the world, ***
- This is not a light option and has no guarantee to work initially, so make sure you understand what you're getting yourself into beforehand. In fact, an approach to explore your 'inner' being is far more important than just getting a fix for your worries. It worked for me after my 1st course, the most intense experience of my life. And most rewarding - past helping me with the anxiety.
Actually, I intentionally googled this post to make these comments. Hopefully you'll find them inspiring somehow. Im sure other techniques - like hypnotherapy could help too. ****
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Best to go easy on yourself, thats for sure. I had this issue for a fair while and randomly discoverd a meditation technique that rid me of the problem. Completely and utterly. Its called Vippassana - there are a few centres scattered throughout the world, ***
- This is not a light option and has no guarantee to work initially, so make sure you understand what you're getting yourself into beforehand. In fact, an approach to explore your 'inner' being is far more important than just getting a fix for your worries. It worked for me after my 1st course, the most intense experience of my life. And most rewarding - past helping me with the anxiety.
Actually, I intentionally googled this post to make these comments. Hopefully you'll find them inspiring somehow. Im sure other techniques - like hypnotherapy could help too. ****
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They can be several issues but im goin to tell u whats goin on maybe.. this happen to me as well 2 times but dont be sacred to try it again most girls will be a shame to go to bed with u more then 2 times if the first time it dint work so well.
before i tell u want to do is goin to be so hard and im not sure if it works for all people if you get an erection when u wake up it porobably do help u.
ok fist of all watch porn but DONT tuch your self if you tuch your self you lose.
2nd- you need to be willing to try hard and it may lend to failure finish u masturbating.
3rd- sleep well 10 hours if u need to
4rd shawer after training more then 4 times in a day. not nessearily after traning
5th- this is more like a warning your stomach will hurt after u train dont train more than you need too.
Note-every time you train it will get harder to manage.
dont train to much if you dont have often sex.
Send me a message to my msn or leave a message here i will like to know if it work for YOU!
before i tell u want to do is goin to be so hard and im not sure if it works for all people if you get an erection when u wake up it porobably do help u.
ok fist of all watch porn but DONT tuch your self if you tuch your self you lose.
2nd- you need to be willing to try hard and it may lend to failure finish u masturbating.
3rd- sleep well 10 hours if u need to
4rd shawer after training more then 4 times in a day. not nessearily after traning
5th- this is more like a warning your stomach will hurt after u train dont train more than you need too.
Note-every time you train it will get harder to manage.
dont train to much if you dont have often sex.
Send me a message to my msn or leave a message here i will like to know if it work for YOU!
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