Every sense i lost my virginity something doesn't seem right

I just recently lost my virginity as well and I feel exactly the same way imagine hearing your whole life that sex is supposed this great thing and a orgasam is supposed to make you feel wonderul but just don't enjoy it please tell me if you find any thing out because something jut dosentseem right.

Sex is the most physical expression between to people. The problem is that everybody expiernces it in dffernet ways, for instance the effects before during and after effect women and men much much much differently. The reason why you may be having problems enjoying sex has a variety of differnet solutions. Self conciousness is huge!!! If your not comfortable with your body then your not going to be confident with some one else in your body. 2nd, have you tried exploring yourself? Find out what gets you going, what meets your needs and then adjust your partner do that to you, most guys find it a turn on. Sex isn't easy you have to work on it.

I used to feel the same until I had an orgasm. I had an orgasm after about 30 times of doing it. Touch your clitoris and you'll have it. That's what I did. Now I have multiple orgasms and enjoy sex.