I lost my virginity last week and I am a very small framed woman and when it happened it was the worst pain I have ever had. There was a lot of bleeding, I mean a lot!!! I was scared at the amount of blood there was. We did it again 2 more times over the next 2 days and the pain and blood were still there. I want to know if this is normal because I am still in pain and I also want to know if I could have gotten pregnant? We didn\'t use protection, as I didn\'t think I could get pregnant the first time.
PLEASE HELP!!!
PLEASE HELP!!!
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Oh Honey! It only takes ONE time, now the pain MIGHT be normal if your boyfriend is on the large side, and he used a position to get maximum penetration. That would hurt your vagina - at the top. Also when you are having sex, your muscles tense and release, similar to doing sit ups. So your vagina is filled with muscles so that will be SOME of the pain.
NOW the bleeding, there is NO way you should be bleeding that much. A little, yes - because of the hymen. It sounds like your boyfreind might have hurt your cervix, OR you have an infection that was exasperated by having sex. Either way you need to get checked out.
Hopefully you are not pregnant, but honey you HAVE to use protection EVERY time. Because with the rise of STD's a baby might be the least of your worries. Also was it the 1st time for your boyfriend? If not, you need to get an STD workup. This is YOUR body, YOUR health and YOUR future, if your partner doesn't want too wear a condom - TOUGH, then there will be NO sex. You are in charge here. I hope everything works out for you hon, but you DO NEED to get checked out by a doctor. Because if you have a tear or something similar you could get an infection. Let me know how you do OK? Much luck sent out your way!
NOW the bleeding, there is NO way you should be bleeding that much. A little, yes - because of the hymen. It sounds like your boyfreind might have hurt your cervix, OR you have an infection that was exasperated by having sex. Either way you need to get checked out.
Hopefully you are not pregnant, but honey you HAVE to use protection EVERY time. Because with the rise of STD's a baby might be the least of your worries. Also was it the 1st time for your boyfriend? If not, you need to get an STD workup. This is YOUR body, YOUR health and YOUR future, if your partner doesn't want too wear a condom - TOUGH, then there will be NO sex. You are in charge here. I hope everything works out for you hon, but you DO NEED to get checked out by a doctor. Because if you have a tear or something similar you could get an infection. Let me know how you do OK? Much luck sent out your way!
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