Female Personal: How to Reduce Sex Drive?

Hi NightingaleSinger, Let me first start by saying that you are completely normal! The urges you have are part of the natural bodily functions, and there is nothing "weird" about it. The reason it is usually around the time of your period is because of the hormones being released during ovulation that give women the desire to look for a mate and procreate. There is nothing bad or wrong with these urges, they are there for a reason, (which probably just seems like it's to drive you crazy and embarrass you in front of the opposite sex) however, your body is working for you even more than it is betraying you...So, that all being said, what to do about your raging hormones...Have you tried any intense physical activities the week before your period, running, biking, working out at the gym, just to try and use up some of the pent up energy? Maybe try hanging out with all your girlfriends around that time so you won't have the awkward physical reaction to your crush? I don't know what your cultural/religious beliefs are on self pleasuring, but it is a safe alternative to sex before marriage, and releases a tremendous amount of sexual frustration, while becoming familiar with your body. Other than what I have said here, I don't think there is a whole lot you can do to stop the bodies natural process of coming into woman-hood, which is what you're experiencing, be happy that you are a healthy young woman whose body is awakening. Enjoy! Hope this helps. Peace to you....

blonde_inc, Thank you for your information! I've never tried intense physical activities to use up extra energy, but it sounds like a great way to reduce the urge! In terms of self-pleasuring, I do try sometimes when I can't deal with my "weird feelings" anymore. However, I'm afraid that the negative effects might have an impact on my sexual abilities after I get married...or does it? Again, thanks for your response! NightingaleSinger

blonde_inc,

Thank you for your information!

I've never tried intense physical activities to use up extra energy, but it sounds like a great way to reduce the urge!

In terms of self-pleasuring, I do try sometimes when I can't deal with my "weird feelings" anymore. However, I'm afraid that the negative effects might have an impact on my sexual abilities after I get married...or does it?

Again, thanks for your response!

NightingaleSinger

Hi NightingaleSinger, I am not sure what you mean by "negative effects" The only effects I can think of from pleasuring yourself is a better understanding of your body, how it works, what feels good to you, and the release of the sexual tension you are experiencing. I would recommend that you do not insert anything inside of you, just for the simple reason that you do have the high moral standard of remaining a virgin until you are married & using a sexual device could accidentally break your hymen (the small piece of tissue that covers the inner vaginal opening that is associated with being a virgin) although, just to be clear, you can have a broken hymen and still be a virgin. You can achieve great self sexual satisfaction from clitoral stimulation and minimal vaginal penetration using your fingers. Try this while taking a hot bath, taking a shower, looking in a mirror, get to know your body NightingaleSinger, there is no negative effects that I can think of honestly. I would assume in your culture that you and your new husband will both be virgins? So, that being said, he will not know much about pleasing a woman, (except for what he's read, seen on tv or heard from friends, which is usually a bunch of B.S.) so think of it as an advantage, because you will already know what makes your body react in a good way, and be able to direct him in how to please you, which will make him feel like a good husband. Now go explore the beautiful body God gave you! I really hope I have helped ease your mind about a very sensitive (no pun intended) subject. Peace be with you.

blonde_inc,
Thank you for responding so clearly! :) :)
NightingaleSinger

You're very welcome, Glad I could help.

Why can't u masturbate definitely it will reduce your sex desires ,