Hey Guys, Im a 17 year old guy and I just wanted to know two things:
1) is it normal that i get turned on very very often and i feel like masturbating???
2) How do i give myself the closest feeling to sex?
Anticipating a quick reply!! Thanxx
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Hi, answer to question one is yes, totally normal. Answer to question two, nothing feels like sex but sex because it us about not only the physical sensations but the emotional connection and being with another person and giving pleasure to and receiving pleasure from them. There is bi other way to get that feeling. But masterbation is the next best thing. Enjoy.
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Thanxx Guest for ur reply. But i feel it's happening too much. I can't masturbate like five times each day every day. Is there any way by which i can control my excitement????
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Yeah I get that. There is nothing wrong with feeling sexual arousal and masturbating, but it can become overwhelming and distracting. Also, for some people sexual arousal can be increased by stress and anxiety, for others it decreases.
Anyway, if having an orgasm when masturbating isn't leading to fulfillment and a decrease in desire then no amount of masturbating or sex will. Something else could be going on. Are you stressed at school or work? are there ways to overcome that. Exercise is a good way both to reduce anxiety and to release physical and sexual tension and perhaps reduce the need to masturbate. You are 17 and your body is raging with hormones, especially testosterone and that is causing this and it is normal, but possibly difficult to cope with. Try getting fully involved in the things you enjoy to take your mind off sex, especially sport if you can. And when you do masturbate allow yourself to enjoy it without guilt or shame. it is normal. Perhaps say to yourself that you will masturbate when you wake up and before you go to sleep. Enjoy that fully and you might find it more satisfying than if you feel guilty about it and then find that you need it less often. I hope that helps.
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Thanxx Guest for ur reply. Yea, that helped a lot. Probably studies only help me to control my sexual arousal and masturbating. I am not into sports and will start exercising soon. Thanx
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