First Time and I didn't have an erection

Haha same thing happened to me last night, I was half erect the whole time which sucked because she was amazingly beautiful. Then my room mate walked in on us and I never got a chance to finish. :(

This same exact thing happened to me! This hot foreign exchange student from France came over to my house, things got hot pretty fast, she said she wanted to have sex (this was my first time). She kept trying to jerk me off but I had no luck there! After a bit of that she stopped and got dressed. This was one of the most embarrassing things that have happened to me. But i'm lucky because she still wants it :D. I'm pretty sure I was just really nervous. I feel that when this happens you just need to envision your self having sex!  

I love sex and have no problem getting erections, but when Im with my gf I won't get arroused. I created an excuse for us to take time apart and had sex with other girls no problem. Why wouldn't I get arroused for my gf, and she is defintley attractive. I'm pretty sure its a mental block of some sort.

Then what should I say...

 

I 've had all the problems you people all mentioned,last week when I tried for first time...

Plus,my girlfriend doesn't believe I can actually do it (and actually said so).

And claims she doesn't feel comfortable enough to try this again with me...

She is so afraid of trying this again with me and ending up with a failure,that she doesn't want to have sex with me again...

How much of this is a virgin's confidence supposed to withstand?

 

 

How is anyone supposed to deal with this?!?!?

This happened to me when i first made love , couldn't get a erection.

man i had the same problem,But when i did get an erection it was only for a minute,like i couldn't keep it? Making me more nervous for the next time.

hey man, all i can say is keep trying, couldnt keep it up a week ago as it was my first time, second time was a fail to, but 3rd time is a charm, although i didnt get a chance to finish i at least managed to be inside for a while but faced a dif problem with my foreskin pulling to back, but thats a dif problem, all u got to do is stay calm and keep plawing!

call me and il do the work for you thx

this just happened to me this would be the 4th time its happened to me i have had sex once but it was in the spur of the moment outside. i can never get hard in a closed room and its very embarrassing. i get hard when we are cuddling/kissing/touching but the second her pants come off i get soft and cant get back up somebody help me.

Happened to me buddy, it was in her car, plus I was nervous and had masturbated that morning. Basically avoid masturbation before, relax, and remember it happens to a lot of guys.

I have sex before with prostitute but when i want to have sex with my virgin girlfriend my erection keep gone ... i have been trying for 3 month LOL !!! she is too tight and my erection always gone when i am going to insert ... we always do in the light off situation and my gf have a small boobs ... izzit i cant see her p***y then my erection gone and i can't get motivate from her boobs as well ? hahaha xp

My first time trying to have sex was a total disaster I had my girl friend over at my house I fingered her where to the poit she moaned then I tought it was time to put it I was hard as a rock but when it came to putting it in my bonar went away I tried stuffing it in there but it wouldn't go in she was a virgin too and that p***y was tight but I tierd twice and nothin happend I felt so embarrassed I feel good writing this down

Ommg ! The Same Exact Thing Just Happened To Me A Couple Of Hours Ago -,- , iHad Masturbated Before She Came Over Then , We Started Making Out Touching , Rubbing , (Got A Hard On ) , Oh & It Was Gonna Be My First Time . Then We Talked About Having Sex , So We Agreed & Said 'LETSDOIT' IWas Happy v.v But As iGot Up To Put On The Condom , My Little Guy [big] lol , Got Soft & iGot Afraid , Slap Him Shook.Him & looked at porn if that woulda helped , but we started making out , got hard stuck it in But It Was HalfHard & soon it whent away v.v It Was In (HalfHard) for like a good minute , Does That Still Make Me A Virgin ? & Could iGet Tips On What To Do.Next Time ?
It Was Embarrasing Explaning.to Her What Happened v.v any tips !?

you just need to relax man you should feel comfortable with her and everything will be ok , just relax

the same story applies to me..

I used to masturbate 3ce daily and I still used to get erection in the morning.I had a girlfriend few years back and we did almost everything except the intercourse because she used to get scared and I didn't want to force her into anything. so we decided that we'll keep that for after marriage.sadly, we broke up, she got married elsewhere and I was left alone.I was missing her emotionally and physically.

cut to present now,

I met this girl who is so caring,gorgeous and sexy.just a few weeks of our knowing each other, we both knew that we were going to have sex. she stays far so we cant meet on a regular basis.we did chat on the phone of what and how would we do it when we get the opportunity.and finally,she came to see me last week in my city. I invited her to my place.mom wasn't going to be home for a couple of days so this was the perfect time!

I got home with her,she wasn't shy at all but was really comfortable.the first 3-4 times we only made out, fairly good.we took bath with each other..felt so good after such a long time.It was the second day that we decided that we would do it.she asked me to get condoms.so i did.we tried it first time that night and I was so excited that it was going to happen!

BUT I just couldn't get the erection last longer..I tried with my hand, she also gave me a hand.it did happen for sometime then it fell off again.she had prior experience so she comforted me by saying that it is normal and it is just because you get nervous.. I was very anxious and even had doubts about my sexuality...but then we tried again the next day.she told me not to get nervous and look into her eyes and just enjoy the moment.when I did it the first time it got over fairly quick.it wasn't even for 1 minute!but then after 2nd or 3rd time it got better.I could feel that I was able to keep it inside for a longer period.it definitely has increased my confidence and I know the best is still yet to come!

I also want to share that I think condoms are very uncomfortable first time,they bring you down.this is because when you are new you are not used to have something wrapped around your penis.I would prefer a condom which is not very tight.Also, first time sex is not like how they show you in the movies(wasn't for me at least) where the best sex happens on the first time itself.

wanted to share this with everyone, I looked into this site out of curiosity and felt so good that almost everyone here had the same experience first time.. it makes me feel much better.I will be seeing my girl again this week and both of us are excited!will tell you people what happens this time as well.

thank you all for sharing.

 

RBL.