I'm 17. So recently, my girlfriend and I decided to have sex, weve been going out for a few months. I am a virgin whereas she is relatively experienced.
Anyway, I can get an erection whilst receiving pleasure such as oral not a problem. We decided to have sex and i was hard before. When the condom was reaching for and opened, i just went flat and simply could not get it up again. This happened twice before we decided to try without protection (shes on the pill), This did not work the first time but eventually the second time i managed to get it up and we did it.
I did not feel nervous at all before it happened. My confidence took a knock when it happened though and im worried it might happen again.
Note: I masturbated several times the day it was to happen and the day before and watched porn too.
Is something wrong with me? Is it the Condom? Anything would be helpful.
Anyway, I can get an erection whilst receiving pleasure such as oral not a problem. We decided to have sex and i was hard before. When the condom was reaching for and opened, i just went flat and simply could not get it up again. This happened twice before we decided to try without protection (shes on the pill), This did not work the first time but eventually the second time i managed to get it up and we did it.
I did not feel nervous at all before it happened. My confidence took a knock when it happened though and im worried it might happen again.
Note: I masturbated several times the day it was to happen and the day before and watched porn too.
Is something wrong with me? Is it the Condom? Anything would be helpful.
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Hi Bob,
Despite what you say I think your body is saying that you were nervous. Like maybe "she might get pregnant."
It's not uncommon for a guy to have difficulty the first couple of times they have sex.
If it happens, don't focus on it. Focus on her instead. Try to relax and not focus on sex alone.
Hang in there.
Despite what you say I think your body is saying that you were nervous. Like maybe "she might get pregnant."
It's not uncommon for a guy to have difficulty the first couple of times they have sex.
If it happens, don't focus on it. Focus on her instead. Try to relax and not focus on sex alone.
Hang in there.
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