Hi all,I came here beceause I'm in the middle of a relationship-crisis. It seems that within a few days, my girlfriend (25yo) has begun to doubt our relationship. Of course, a lot of things need fixing, and we both need to adjust our behaviour towards each other. But this seems so all of a sudden, so drastic it is killing me. It appears she isn't even giving me a chance to talk about it. She is very cold and distand towards me. She started texting some old classmate, in which of course, she finds joy and is starting to like him. Result: more doubt. Even though she is super distant towards me, she doesn't want to give this long term relationship up. She said she is having a rollercoaster of emotions and doubts. Sounds a bit like ROCD to me?When I googled, I found a threat in which a girl experienced a loss of feelings towards her boyfriend when she stopped the pill. When I read that, I suddenly thought I found the missing piece. My girlfriend stopped taking the pill about three months ago. Is it possible her doubts are a side effect from this?She started talking the pill when she was 12 I beleive. Mainly beceause her period was so intense and painfull she sometimes fainted. She suffered from severe acne too. When she took the pill, this all disappeared. She started on the Diane and switched about two years ago to a lighter one. Last may/june she stopped all together like I said. Her acne returned, and last two weeks these doubts. Could this be the pill or are it just relationship issues? Perhaps a combination of both?edit: I remember she said she occasionally had some sort of "anxiety attacks", mostly in the middle of the night and sometimes during the day in which she feared of dying. This all started about 1/1,5 month ago.