Had Sex Now I have A problem.

AK93111986 over a year ago

Ok well me && my boyfriend have been together for a lil over a year & a half. We have been having sex but I was his 1st he was mine, so we don't really know much. Well last week we had sex and I spotted which was weird cuz my period was way over but I didn't really think much of it. Today me & him had sex and I started bleeding really bad, not trying to be gross but it was like someone stabbed me with a knife down there. We both got scared and don't know what it is?
Is there anyone who can help me?
Or knows what It might be?
please help me.

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Guest over a year ago

AK93 wrote:

Ok well me && my boyfriend have been together for a lil over a year & a half. We have been having sex but I was his 1st he was mine, so we don't really know much. Well last week we had sex and I spotted which was weird cuz my period was way over but I didn't really think much of it. Today me & him had sex and I started bleeding really bad, not trying to be gross but it was like someone stabbed me with a knife down there. We both got scared and don't know what it is?
Is there anyone who can help me?
Or knows what It might be?
please help me.

Ok... if when u bleed and it hurt... i believe he put it in the wrong place... and sometimes spotting is normal... but if the bleeding was bad nad it didnt hurt... just see a doctor... an lay off the intercorse....

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scorcher9125456 over a year ago

Dear poster I am not much expert at this but could it be the reason that you had a rough intercourse? Maybe not using any protection or a lube?

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AK93111986 over a year ago

Well he did get a little rough which is something he has only done once or twice but we did use protection but we didn't use lube.
So could that be the reason?

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bluedog114369 over a year ago

Oh my goodness yes. The body was not meant to have latex while having sex. Now that's not to say that you shouldn't use latex--but your body does not lubricate itself enough naturally to compensate for it. Does that help?

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Idioteque126663 over a year ago

I just had the same problem last night o_o
It didnt hurt, at all..but I had sex twice (not rough at all) and on the second go I started bleeding a fair amount
Im still bleeding this morning, but only after I went to the bathroom did I see the blood
I started taking my birth control about two weeks ago and havent had a problem before yesterday

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Idioteque126663 over a year ago

Ahm, disregard my post, Im sorry
I was trying to post a topic (Im really new here)

But to the OP, he must have just hit something the wrong way or you weren't wet enough
I've had that same thing happen before, feels like something got a bit ripped down there and it bled for a few hours

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bluedog114369 over a year ago

Yah, definitely try using more lubricant. Your bleeidng is often caused by not having enough lube, which creates friction and thus bleeding. Does that make sense?

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sixlilpenguins117192 over a year ago

bluedog wrote:

AK93 wrote:
Well he did get a little rough which is something he has only done once or twice but we did use protection but we didn't use lube.
So could that be the reason?

Oh my goodness yes. The body was not meant to have latex while having sex. Now that's not to say that you shouldn't use latex--but your body does not lubricate itself enough naturally to compensate for it. Does that help?

i have never used lube when i used a condom. granted i didnt use condoms that often, but i never had a lubrication issue. although they say everyone is different.

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bluedog114369 over a year ago

Did using more lubricant help you out at all? I'd like to hear if it did or not. Maybe I wasn't correct in my assessment. Can you let me know? Thanks!

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