Looking for some advice and support. Im a 33 year old female and had a haemroidectomy 2 months ago. I had 3 internal ones removed but my external skin tag was left. The initial recovery was awful. I had 2 kids naturally and this was so much worse. I really underestimated the recovery process and was perhaps back to work and chasing my kids around too soon. Since I have been on stool softeners, added extra fibre to diet and benefibre. I find it impossible to go unless Im soft and dont want to up the laxitives too much as they bloat me and make normal life hard. I feel like it is too tight down there and trying to stretch it terrifies me! Im petrified I getting abal stenosis. The whole process is making me so miserable. Would love to hear any advice anyone has