i mean u can even make love til u pre ejaculate den u can lay her baq...do u and then use the mind over matter and tear it up...that wat i do
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I noticed that because I masturbate atleast once a day (normaly before bed) I last on avarage about 2.5 hours. If I dont mastubate for a couple days I notice that I last about 45min tops. So I would say mastubate on the regular it works for me.
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bro just lick that p***y real good for 5 min trust itll fly by then put that baby to work
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My three techniques:
2: If you cum way too fast, do what every m***n knows; masturbate in good time before(so you can still get it up, if you have that kind of problem), this will of course make it so that you will need more stimulus to cum.
3: Many girls(I would say most, but then again I don't really know that) appreciate that you don't pound them as hard and fast as possible. Do it slowly and softly. To make them cum you must be sensitive and do a lot of foreplay. I usually touch their face while kissing them(not all the time, but in a way to show passion), stroke their hair, neck side of body, behind knee, inside of elbow(just a little, no special focus). Then focus more on the middle of body, like breasts and stomach, before stroking softly *around* the vagina, where the pubes are/would be. Then don't go to the vagina just yet, stroke the thighs a little, and inside of thigh. It works wonders if all strokes non-suspiciously strokes in the direction of the vagina(don't let them realize you're doing it on purpose). Try also to lick these places, and softly bite(not for pain, just passionately) the neck, if she doesn't respond; try something else, licking is usually a safe bet.
To make her cum: I'm only able to make chicks cum on command in missionary, however if she's tight with small p***y lips she will be able to cum in doggy too ;) When in the missionary use your hips a lot, aim the head of your penis up towards her bellybutton(hitting the G-spot), however the g-spot is not the secret, it's a rather useless "secret spot". You want to hit the clitoris with your lower stomach, that's why using your hips smoothly is important. make sure she is very slippery, you might use saliva to make the whole entrance *plus* the clitoris(most important) very wet. Now make sure to not care about how you feel, but try to read where she is reacting positively(this will also take you mind off a little making you cum not so fast), and continue on the same spot until she responds less, then change the direction of the penis slightly until she responds positively again. In the end you will most likely find a spot where you just have to do the same until she cums. After a while it becomes easy as pancakes.
If you have a tendency to cum too fast, I'm sure you are too focused on how you yourself is feeling. Focus on her first, then you can cum as much as you like. Also focusing on her makes you last longer, so you won't have to imagine your poo-smeared grandma or something when you have sex. She will love having sex, she will love you, and she is much more unlikely to cheat, because she feels you care about her, it makes her think your super hot and sexy(at least more than before).
I figured this out because I had huge self confidence issues and wanted to be good in bed. It took a lot of trial and error, but just trying makes you so much better in bed than the average "I don't care about if you like it"-guy. At present moment I there's only one girl I couldn't make cum, but I think she had a bf at the time(I didn't discover until later) probably filled with guilt.
Every girl is different, try to find out what she likes, it's is often related to what she is doing with you(because she is used to guys cumming anyway, so she thinks what's good for her is good for you). I.E. Girl licks your ear: lick hers, and around and behind ear, down towards the neck.
Good luck ;)
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you can try focusing on other things around you or do it while the tv is on and watch that :D goodluck!
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If you masterbate allday and have sex at night that will help you last longer cuz your body wont have alot of cum in it so itl take longer to cum;-)
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I think it is silly to masturbate, to keep from cumming so quickly. I have always had sex, and when I cum, I cum. I then perform oral sex on the woman, until I am hard again. After I get hard the second time, I can go for a very long time before ejaculating again. Usually I stay hard after the second orgasm, and can continue on. From that point on, I have very little semen that comes out, but I still have the same sensation of orgasm. So, practice oral sex on your partner. They will appreciate the thoughtfulness, in more ways than one.
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man i thought i was the one having a cumming problem but hell 2 mins? 7 mins? my shortest was 20 mins my longest was 3/1/2 hours (not recommended) if you want advice jus reply.
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i hear all these answers about jacking off before having sex. why not just ejaculate in her more then once?
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yes, masturbating beforehand works well and so does thinking about other stuff (but it can ruin the point of sex), i find that technique is the best way. start off with missionary for a couple of minutes to get her turned on and wanting more then switch to her on top for a little while (the male is not doing much of the work when she is riding, so we are more focused on the task in hand and can last longer) after that you can switch to any position you like and you should be able to last longer than normal (also, hard thrusting and average pace can give a lot of pleasure for the female while at the same time improving our muscles and helping extend our stay inside of the female) i have managed to last 3 hours using this and i could probably do more but she gotta have a break sometime hehe
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ok so what u do is u slap him once every 10 to 5 min but if it turns him on dont do it mabe stop for 2 min so the fluids go back up then u can have sex for a long time with out cuming
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ok guys, alot of good tips here, i dont know how you guys can go for hours, i mean i can go for over an hour but after that i can't come either due to fatigue, i think i need to improve my cardio first lol. I wouldn't advise thinking of something else because then depending on how focused you are then you could lose your erection making her feel unwanted and crappy. Definately change positions to give yourself time to recover but don't forget, that will make it longer until she comes too. I agree with the senstual touching/licking and also depending on the girl some like it if you can talk "dirty" too them, but in the sense of " you make me so hard" etc not "your a s***" just so we're clear :) hope this can help somebody
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