My husband and I haven't had sex for a long time

You have to realize that 34 years is a long time and have to put the spark back into your relationship. Maybe you can start with date night going to the movies, dinner,(cooking his favorite)lite some candles. Wear something that he really thinks your sexy in with something that smells nice. Change things up doing the same routine can get boring if some of this does not work pray and ask him to reveal whats going on is it you or him and to give up insite so you can calm your mind. Give it to him as long as you do all that you can do and tried everything you can what else can you do. Before anything pray first..........

I know why he doesn't want sex. You see he wants someone else who is skinny and better looking. He wants a nurse that he was in the prison with. I'm not stupid.He wants her to come for a few days and visit.. So getting all dolled up isn't an option. My marriage is done as long as I'm concern in the sex department. I ask for sex and all he says is either he is already dressed or he's just too tired.
dejolane

first u make sure that he...really want someoe else.... if is it real.... then......u.. too ..follow his rule.... yes .. it seems... something ....wrong.. but... we are ,,, doing,, mistake,,, for,,, our ,, need know... i think... mistake ..in ..need of .. sex is ... not a wrong becoz....sex is the one of the the fantastic.. and enjoing movement....... first you try to control your weight....... then search wht u want

I am a man, but I wanted to answer. My wife and I we didn't have over 5 years for many reason she keep pushing away. Since I had some accident near private part when I was kid, I had to have intercourse very often at least two days week with 5 or more intercourse in a day. My wife knew this. About two years ago, her younger brother and his family visited us and stayed with couple of months. Friday night kids stay in our room, both enjoy wild sex all night. I asked my wife, we have to start. Her brother went to see his close friend in different town for couple of weeks. My wife told sister-in-law to take care of kids, but she didn't she went to her friend's house without kids. We couldn't do. After they came back, we found out her brother enjoyed sex with his two friends wife in alternate days and last day both women wild sex for long time. His wife went to see her school BF home, he was alone at home and they enjoyed 15 days of wild sex. I decided after they leave. Then left, that evening I told my wife we have to, if not I am finding women and enjoying, and finally she greed, Next 15 nights we enjoyed wild sex from evening 7 to next day morning 7. Ever since then we are back to our Friday night sex night.