My boyfriend had a vasctomy reversal 3 months ago and im wondering how long it usually take before i can get pregnant? We have been trying for 2 monts now. Im a couple days late but i have no symptoms and i took a pregnancy test about a week ago and it was negitive.
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It sounds like you're really watching the clock here and pushing for a child.
Some couples have found when they relax and stop worrying about conceiving, that it happens more naturally.
Certainly stress and pressure doesn't help any, on either side...his or yours.
There is no concrete answer to your question.
In theory, after a reversal, if the two of you NEVER had sex, the answer could be "Never"... but that's not practical.
Make sure that you're not rushing him to have sex. "OK Honey, the chart says I'm ovulating. Get in bed, cause we've got only 5 minutes before we have to leave for work...."
NOT the way to do it.
While some advice will say to have sex as often as possible around the time of ovulation, others say limiting it to once or twice around that time is more effective, because it lets him store up more active sperm between climaxes.
While some couples can have sex six times a night and still be turned on to go, the majority find once a night to be plenty for them. Don't push for more than you feel comfortable having ordinarily.
The other suggestion is that you stop worrying about conception, and focus more on the emotional connection you to have...being kind, and loving, and slow, and patient with each other. That will make the start of the new life so much more meaningful than having sex on a schedule.
Good luck.
Some couples have found when they relax and stop worrying about conceiving, that it happens more naturally.
Certainly stress and pressure doesn't help any, on either side...his or yours.
There is no concrete answer to your question.
In theory, after a reversal, if the two of you NEVER had sex, the answer could be "Never"... but that's not practical.
Make sure that you're not rushing him to have sex. "OK Honey, the chart says I'm ovulating. Get in bed, cause we've got only 5 minutes before we have to leave for work...."
NOT the way to do it.
While some advice will say to have sex as often as possible around the time of ovulation, others say limiting it to once or twice around that time is more effective, because it lets him store up more active sperm between climaxes.
While some couples can have sex six times a night and still be turned on to go, the majority find once a night to be plenty for them. Don't push for more than you feel comfortable having ordinarily.
The other suggestion is that you stop worrying about conception, and focus more on the emotional connection you to have...being kind, and loving, and slow, and patient with each other. That will make the start of the new life so much more meaningful than having sex on a schedule.
Good luck.
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