How to break my virginity without pain?

Hi LesWa

There is no such thing as a "standard' woman in this world. As for losing virginity and pain - some women experience pain, some no pain at all, very few percentile experience high levels of pain - but these are rare. You can use a dildo to gently glide it, do excite yourself to get that lubricated feeling and that should be ok. Penetrative sex is another method, but that requires you to have a consenting partner. Good luck