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Yes, I agree that this is normal, especially in his age, but the biggest problem is that this can become a problem. It can become an addiction. It is ok that you want to quit masturbating, of course, you should not avoid it totally, but you should do it less often than you are doing it now.
Anyway, about the question - you are way too young I think. I think that this issue about your wet dreams will go away by itself and that you should not be that stressed about this.
In this case, the only thing that you can actually do about this is to masturbate less.
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masturbation can be negative in only one way. when masturbation starts to completely take over your life and becomes a hinderence on any other activities that you would normally be doing, then that is when masturbation is bad for you.
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on a side note:
liviingtrue i respect your opinion, but masturbation i very healthy and for most people it wont ever be a problem. i would like to see proof the information of why you think its unhealthy. please list your sources.
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For men only:
There are two senses of the word "normal" - "normal" as in widespread, and "normal" as in healthy. Masturbation may be widespread, but it is not healthy. Every time it occurs it causes the stem cells of the bone marrow to divide. In older age, when there are fewer of these cells left due to masturbation, the body has difficulty repairing itself.
The whole reason that masturbation has become common is that momentary pleasure is seductive, and those taking the advice of those who suggest it do not maintain a sense of themselves longer than the advice itself.
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Glands enlarge due to too much stimulation. The heart enlarges when it has difficulty pumping blood. The prostate gland enlarges from incorrect usage.
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What is good is to find creative interests.
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Masturbation does not take human life. There is a difference between sperm and a real live, breathing, human being.
Sperm is only a piece of DNA in a capsule. It can not think, It does not feel. Sperm is no more a human being then cell that grow anywhere else on your body.
Masturbating is only bad if it consumes your life.
My opinion is, people are blinded by their faith. Most people are incapable of thinking for themselves. Please if you are reading this do me a favor, think of the last time you created a significant new thought or choice.
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People are brought up under a certain lifestyle, and they simply never change, I myself included. I was brought up under a scientific household, and I see it as the 'truth'. I know a person named Ben. he was brought up under a religious household, and he views it as the 'truth'. I think his views are wrong, that he has been blinded by false truths, and he thinks that I'm a unbeliever who will go to hell. We really aren't that different but we will never know. We will think we are above the other person, that we are right and they are wrong, and we will raise our kids the same way.
I'm not going to preach my opinions like they are the truths, but I'm going to threat them as just that, opinions. I'm not asking you to accept my own thoughts as your own. I'm only human. I'm asking you to give me a fair chance, and to listen to what I have to say before pelting me with rotten apples.
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And yeah, lucid dreaming techniques can help. I'm no expert, so wouldn't want to instruct you, but there's alot of info on the web if you look.
Hypnosis is known to work for certain people as well, can't hurt to try.
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To begin lucid dreaming i suggest attempting to view your HAND while in sleep. There are a great deal of books on the subject, I suggest reading something by Stephen LaBerge.
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