I am bisexual and I am attending an all boys school that doesn't care about sexual preferences.

Hi Hittlen,

For the pain, is it your foreskin that is causing the pain? Is it too tight and not sliding?

For the rest of your post, you are being sexually assaulted and raped. Having anal sex without your permission is rape.

I'd suggest your report this to your local authorities or headmaster, but please report it. You aren't doing anything wrong, you are a victim. The fact that they don't stop shows that they don't have any remorse. They may go on to hurt someone else in the future, you can put a stop to it now.

Keep us posted.

The problem with my roommates has been handled and both of the boys have been dismissed for rape and gross poor judgment. But as for when I masturbate, I went to the doctor today and they checked my penis and checked my foreskin and had asked me to get an erection and asked me to show him how a masturbate the doctor told me after he had checked me himself, he told me that its not my foreskin that's causing the problem. So then he did some more tests and had given me an organism to make sure that I could ejaculate and after he was finished he told me I could do one of two things. One I could get circumcised or two just leave it alone and not cut it off. I don't want to have to deal with pain anymore so I have decided to get circumcised and I was wondering as to how long it is going to take and will it hurt?

Thanks

I'm very proud of you for standing up for yourself Hittlen.

You don't say how old you are but since you're in shool, I'm guessing younger than 20 or so. I'm not sure why he's telling you to get circumcised if its not the problem. Circumcision removes your foreskin.

I'd suggest you get a second opinion. Next time from a urologist. I would also add that the doctors "exam" sounds a bit unorthodox. It is not common for a doctor to ask someone to have an orgasm just because they have pain when erect.

A circumcision could be done in the doctors office. The procedure doesn't take very long and you'd be given a local anesthetic. It can take a few days to a week or more to recover. Pain is the most common complaint.

You'll also notice less sensation.

I urge you to get that second opinion.

Good luck, Keep us posted as to your decision or if you have more questions.

Hittlen,

I'm late to be following this discussion, but I am curious what decision you made regarding circumcision.

There are some men on this forum who are admamantly against circumcision, but as I was "cut" at birth, I have no frame of reference.

Certainly, if sex is causing you pain, the doctor's recommendation is valid, after his examination. The alternative is to wait, and see if this pain subsides or if you can change how you masturbate to avoid this pain.

I'm just curious what you decided and if it is still a problem for you.

Hi Hittlen

Like everyone else, i suggest you to go to another doctor and seek another advice. I haven't been circumcised and for you to make this choice seriously you need to think about it. What i know about circumcision is that you loose lots of sensations and people do it cuz of culture and believes... I personally think that this is actually against nature. But cuz of those religious people, they make even their sons suffer without a choice... Ask another doctor. Wash yourself reguraly. Discuss if you can with your parents. 

When they have anal sex with you without your permission they are committing the crime of male rape. Call the police and report them.

That will take care of the problem.

With regard to masturbation, if you are circumcised and deprived of the internally lubricated foreskin you need external lubrication to avoid injuring yourself.

What school did you go to when this happend

There is something about that doctor that does not smell right.

You need to fully investigate circumcision before deciding to have a circumcision.

You are blessed with a protective, highly-innervated, erogenous foreskin. Many unforeskinned guys would envy your foreskin. You display great wisdom in wanting to avoid circumcision,

You should thank your parents for protecting your physical integrity. Because of your physical integrity you will be able to have sex the way nature intended it.

Circumcision is an ELECTIVE operation. You don’t have to have a circumcision. You have lived your life thus far without a circumcision and you can continue to do so. You are choosing to have a circumcision.

The foreskin has protective, immunological, sensory, and sexual functions. The areas of the penis with the greatest tactile are all on the foreskin.

Adult circumcision is an extremely destructive, permanently injurious, radical operation that severs blood vessels, nerves, and other tissue. The permanent and irreversible amputation excises the most sexually sensitive part of the penis. Sensation is permanently reduced.

Most conditions for which circumcision has been historically performed may now be conservatively treated without surgery.

Complications include hemorrhage, infection, and surgical accident.
There are many possible adverse outcomes, including total loss of the penis and even death.

The operation severs nerves and blood vessels, so sensation and blood circulation are permanently impaired. The ability to have an erection may be impaired. The ability to ejaculate may be impaired.

The recovery period is usually painful and takes about six weeks.

The cost is about US$2,500 to US$3,000. Your insurance may or may not pay for it, because it is non-therapeutic. They may consider it to be elective cosmetic surgery.

The sensitive head of your penis will be permanently exposed to friction on clothing and there will be nothing to cover and protect it.

You will have to alter your method of masturbation. Most circumcised guys need to use artificial lubrication.

Adult circumcision is outmoded as a treatment for phimosis.

Many men later regret their decision to be circumcised because of the loss of so much sexual sensation.