hey im 16 & 4months ago i had sex with my ex who was 20 , this was my 3rd time. everything was going good & he switched 2 using his hands which i loved but he got carried away & forced his hand up and ripped me open but it wasnt sore & i ddnt realise until he started going mad with his hand round in big circles & i got worried. for 2 weeks a wierd dark liquid was seeping & it was exteamly painful 2 go 2 the toilet atol. i got constant pains al day & night.
now 4months l8r i hav a new steady bf & we love eachother but i feel absolutely nothing during any form of sex, i feel his penis going in & out but i get no pleasure, i get realy sharp period-like pains & hav 2 stop. also its very uncomfortable & feels lyk somethings out of place, i also find it realy hard 2 get wet no matter how turned on i am.
its also still painful going 2 th toilet sometimes & i still get these sharp pains out of the blue. i checked myself and everything feels diferent & thers bits inside me sticking out of place.
its realy frustrating bcoz i love my bf & i realy want 2 make love 2 him & just b able 2 enjoy it again, but no matter how much i want 2, i cant feel anything. wev stopped having sex now until i find out whats wrong but its put a real strain on us & i dnt no whats wrong or if it can be fixed.
its also afected me emotionaly, im frustrated & depresed & not my usual bubbly self, im always sitting in the house. i feel lyk a freak & it gets me down bcoz i feel lyk im not good enuf for my bf & i dnt undrstand why hes stil with me.
people say its normal not 2 feel anything but this is diferent i think somethings realy wrong but im 2 embaressed 2 go 2 a doctor.
please somebody help me, any ideas whats wrong with me?
now 4months l8r i hav a new steady bf & we love eachother but i feel absolutely nothing during any form of sex, i feel his penis going in & out but i get no pleasure, i get realy sharp period-like pains & hav 2 stop. also its very uncomfortable & feels lyk somethings out of place, i also find it realy hard 2 get wet no matter how turned on i am.
its also still painful going 2 th toilet sometimes & i still get these sharp pains out of the blue. i checked myself and everything feels diferent & thers bits inside me sticking out of place.
its realy frustrating bcoz i love my bf & i realy want 2 make love 2 him & just b able 2 enjoy it again, but no matter how much i want 2, i cant feel anything. wev stopped having sex now until i find out whats wrong but its put a real strain on us & i dnt no whats wrong or if it can be fixed.
its also afected me emotionaly, im frustrated & depresed & not my usual bubbly self, im always sitting in the house. i feel lyk a freak & it gets me down bcoz i feel lyk im not good enuf for my bf & i dnt undrstand why hes stil with me.
people say its normal not 2 feel anything but this is diferent i think somethings realy wrong but im 2 embaressed 2 go 2 a doctor.
please somebody help me, any ideas whats wrong with me?
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You've probably got vaginal scarring from the nail of your earlier boyfriend or your glands are not lubricating enough. You should see a docter, don't be afraid, it's your parent's you should be afraid of, depression can lead to emotional sysmtomps turning into a medical mind disorder... See the docter asap or the schiciatrist first.
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