I'm almost 13, 5'4, and I weigh 137 lbs. I'm going to 7th grade in a pretty small school. I play volleyball and basketball, but I'm still the most overweight girl in 7th grade. I like to eat but I wouldn't say I eat to much. I've been trying to lose weight but my big brother and sister are athletic people and allways pester me. They eat candy and cake and large amounts of food right in front of me. And I'm losing confidence. Lots of girls at my school are in dance. But my dad can't afford it. And besides I suck at dancing. I can't even do the splits. I'm a child of 7 and the most over weight. And I'm losing confidence!!! Please someone, anyone I need advise!!