Im 14 years old. I've always liked guys and before all of this happened I would have never thought I was a lesbian but lately I'm so confused.
I've always liked guys and even had a couple of major crushes for some guys and always thought they were attractive until about two months when someone asked if I was a lesbian on tumblr and I know it sounds silly and that but after that I can't help but think I am one. I mean I think I know I'm not because I don't think id ever a girl I mean I have nothing against it but I know its just not me. but then I don't know I think its hocd because its like I don't want to be anything but straight but then my minds like your gay and then I take it back straight away and I know my mind is trying to trick me into being a lesbian because that's what hocd does but then I feel as if I'm in denial one day and then the other I'm like no I'm not gay I'm completely straight. I was talking to mum and she was like if you don't want to be that then you're not even if you're confused about it, it means that you're not even bi or lesbian because you'd know and stuff I guess its just I'm from a family of 4 girls and they always tease because apparently its 1 out of 4 girls who are lesbian and they're all straight so I must be a lesbian but I mean I defiantly don't want to be and stuff and its made me depressed to the point where I don't want to do anything and I just need help I'm so confused and I know I should just leave it and be okay for now but I just can't because I'm crazy like that, I've also done stuff with a guy and liked it but I'm just so confused can someone please help me, I seriously don't want to be a lesbian. And all these girls are coming out gay/bi now and recently one of my friends have recently came out gay and I'm freaked out that I am too:(
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I don't really understand, but... if you aren't sexually attracted to girls then you are not a lesbian. It's pretty simple. It's not anything like 1 out of 4 girls either (and even if it were, that doesn't mean you would automatically be a lesbian).
So, don't worry about it. :)
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Well, that's pretty normal I guess... I mean, if your friends are struggling with it or whatever. I don't know if it helps for me to say it, but just try not to worry too much.
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I haven't told anyone? I know I'm not a lesbian, I'm just obsessing over something that's not real and its getting to me something fierce.
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I understand what you're going through im 16 and someone jokingly said are you a lesbian because i dont have a boyfriend since then it keeps going through my mind am i bi/lesbian i dont want to be at all and i dont see girls in a sexual way but then my brains like your gay and ive made out with a guy and loved it. Its got to the point where im really anxious about being a lesbian like if i saw two girls kissing i'd be like well thats up to them and wouldnt have anything against it then i question does that mean im heading over towards being bi
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