I hadnt had sex in a while with my husband. We are trying to work on or marriage... I told him I would take care of him sexually and we wouldnt have to have intercourse. Well what im wondering (in our past exper) shoouldnt he of come kinda fast , me giving him oral sex? Since we didnt have any sexual contact at all in many months?
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While it is true that a man may come more quickly if he hasn't had sex in awhile, it is not true that he MUST come quickly.
There are other outlets for men... masterbation...nocturnal emissions...wet dreams...phone sex...computer sex, etc.
The fact that he may not come fast with oral sex from you does not mean that he's cheating. Only that he didn't come as quickly as you assumed he might.
If you have concerns that he's cheating, talk with him in a non-threatening way. "I thought you might have come sooner... or been more excited. Is there anything I can do to help you?"
He may also be concerned about the marriage. It's hard to be relaxed and free to come when your partner is setting limits on what has been shared in the past.
Sounds like you've got other issues to deal with.
Good luck.
There are other outlets for men... masterbation...nocturnal emissions...wet dreams...phone sex...computer sex, etc.
The fact that he may not come fast with oral sex from you does not mean that he's cheating. Only that he didn't come as quickly as you assumed he might.
If you have concerns that he's cheating, talk with him in a non-threatening way. "I thought you might have come sooner... or been more excited. Is there anything I can do to help you?"
He may also be concerned about the marriage. It's hard to be relaxed and free to come when your partner is setting limits on what has been shared in the past.
Sounds like you've got other issues to deal with.
Good luck.
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