Hi,i am 24 year old girl and im struggling with my husband for the last two month.its hurting my heart because i thought that we wil be together but obviously i dont see it.everytime we are going to have sex,he would watch lesbian porn licking eachothers pussies and hes enjoying it.i ask him why would he do that but he just says its a fettish.so i get quiet and listen what he does because i dont want problems with him and i love him.so the other day he was talking to a girl on the phone and i walked in and he kept talking to her infront of me. i got angry and hes telling me that he isnt hiding anything from me and that he invited her to his house because he wanted a threesome. i didnt agree but he doesnt care about my feelings.so last night i slept alone in my room and he was with the girl downstairs f*****g her and enjoying drinks.she left the next day in the morning and hes trying to talk to me and telling me its all about sex and he is still in love with me and that girl meant nothing.so then with his sweet words,i just got quiet and he picked me up and toke me to our bed and we made love. can i have any advice of what should i do because i am afriad to leave him.
Thank you,kathy
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He's cheating you clearly, don't you see? Where's loyalty? You have what he needs but he still keeps making love with other girls. You will always feel bad unless you get rid of him. You two are not dating, it's marriage. Let him go and find a decent man.
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Hi Kathy,
I agree with Karate. Pack your bags and let him go. Don't look back. He has no respect for you.
You are also at risk of STD's from his fling(s).
He's not going to stop with one either.
I agree with Karate. Pack your bags and let him go. Don't look back. He has no respect for you.
You are also at risk of STD's from his fling(s).
He's not going to stop with one either.
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hi his defi cheating on you and he has made you love him but he sounds like you only wants you for sex and he doesnt have any respect ano it will be hard to leave as he has lead you on but talk to a sensiable close friend and she could help you his such a penis soz but he really is !!!! and your still quite young so get alway soon plz and let us know how to get on im only 14 but its ovbs his stupid and just wants sex xx my friend got raped by a boy in ur year at school nd he was drunk :(
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hey thnx for the advice .
i know im still young and he is too but he is saying that he wants to explore and experience.he would like to have an open marriage and he would like to share partners but im not looking forward to this situation. i dont want to lose him and im in love with him very deeply.he is very nice and gives me alot of love.
should i go for the open marriage or some councelling.thnxx
i know im still young and he is too but he is saying that he wants to explore and experience.he would like to have an open marriage and he would like to share partners but im not looking forward to this situation. i dont want to lose him and im in love with him very deeply.he is very nice and gives me alot of love.
should i go for the open marriage or some councelling.thnxx
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You might try the counseling but definitely not the open marriage. I'm 72 and I've never known anyone who thought they could do open marriage, who made it work.
My opinion: He still wants to be single and have sex with every girl he can get. That's a pretty good indication that he doesn't care much about you except to keep you handy for when he needs to masturbate inside you. He's using you!
You ARE young and you deserve to have a chance to see what real love is and what a truly satisfying sexual relationship with a faithful spouse can be.
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i agree with njoynlife his using u for when he cant find anyone else to have sex with and cos his having sex with so many girls his only meet once he could catch something from them and give it to u! tell him that and ask him if he cares and i think his just still quite stupid and immature ge sounds like immature boys in my school who want to have sex with as many girls as they ban and dont care about personilty and he could change when u both r older but he could be the same or worse and u defo dont deserve to wait ur clearly not happy and he only loves u when their is noone else u need but u love him always u need a guy who loves u as often as u love him and as much as u love him u need a guy who is not immature mabey if u both hadnt got meet so soon it would have been better but u cant predict that! so plz divorce and find a adverage nice cute mature and loveable guy cos YOLO you only live once !!! :)
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hey thanks for your advice about letting him go but i know that hes making love with other girl with protection.we tried talking . he is a very nice husband and hes very nice to me and to my family.i know its hard and i got to be strong. he has things in his mind thats turning him on and i understand that. he is talking about an open marriages and he still wantsme by his side.i know alot of couple,that go for threesomes and open marriages and they are still in love. thanks
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yes i am in love him and its hard to leave his ass.hes only f*****g young girls because i wont give it to him because i get angry at him sometimes when he talks about others girls and threesome.i told him,i wont have a threesome with another girl and him while he is banging us both at the same time.he is a very attractive and nice guy and i understand that alotof girls look at him.we are talkingabout this situation and im hoping he can quite having sex with girls and have it with me. i also talked to a friend of mine and we are working on it.i told him i will leave him but he wont let me go and tells me to give him time and we can have a talk. guys can be penises sometimes but there is something that we can stop it.:-)
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well im not thinking of a divorce for now and its gonna be hard.we can try to separate and some coucilling. sometimes i think hes being abit mature because hes only younger than me 4 years.the only think i know is that hes having sex with younger girls under 24.do you think thats the situation,does he feel better or does he get aroused by these girls.i stopped giving him my body to him because i was angry when he got 2 younger girls and f*****g them in my living room and i was sleeping in my room upstairs.what upsets me is that these girls know hes married because i heard them yelling,"f**k me married men"and he was enjoying it.we are talking about this and i am hoping he will change until ill do something new.thanks
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I sounds to me like you are making excuses for him while trying to convince yourself that it's OK for him to CHEAT on you.
I stand by my previous post!!!!
I stand by my previous post!!!!
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Your a very silly woman. Your husband is not showing you by respect and is very clearly cheating on you. Why would you live a man who does this? Youbare both very young to be married, most people date at your age. I think you may have rushed into a relationship or something because I doubt very much you would marry a man who does this to you. Is that really what you are to him? His young little wifey who will have threesomes and sh*t? I would not tolerate this at all. Get a back bone and either have a serious talk and counselling or seperate.
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hi,me and mu husband have been taking counselling and it helped us both. he has moved on with his silly stuff that he use to do. he has spoke to me about the girls that he was f*****g and having threesomes with and he said that they were nothing but experiments. i hope he really means it because he says hes a changed men and he will only have sex with me and he will be faithful.so im happy right now. thanks everyone for your advices,it helped me alot.
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Tell your " husband" that you'd like to have a threesome. But with two guys. I'm sure he's not enough man to satisfy you anyways. Tell him it would really turn you on if he watched you getting screwed by another guy. Even if it's not true. He will most likely be against it. Then you say the way you feel right now is how you make me feel when you go and bang those s**ts, and want to bring them into our marriage bed.
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Wow you are really stupid Kathy ! .......
And why are you asking for advice if you won't use it ?.....
Since you want to stay with him then why are you wasting people's time and asking for advice you won't tolerate ?......
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