i have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we have not had sex in 2 years when we did have intercourse he would start hard and go soft right away and not finish when i give him oral he would finish we he doesnt touch me in a sexual way at all we used to have a great sex life i have talked to him about it i ask is it me he says no he masturbates all the time i dont know what to do he wont go to therapy he said he can go to the doctor to get pills but i dont think he need them because he has no problem getting it up to masturbate or when i give him oral HELP
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He could be just using you? Or, he is emotionally hurt by something, hence he starts fast and then goes slow (he might be thinking of something that emotionally hurts him)? Talk to him, see what the problem is.
1. He is cheating on you
2. He is emotionally hurt by something
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Unfortunately, it sounds like therapy is your best bet. His ability to achieve an erection is not the issue, it appears to be an emotional one and until that is resolved this problem will continue. You need to have a serious discussion with him and try to get him to agree to individual and couples counseling. Both will be a great benefit. Good Luck
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