my boyfriend seems to be cumming quicker and quicker (whether he initiates or not), at first I didn't mind I enjoyed that he was satisfied and almost took it as a compliment but as the theoretical tally has skyrocketed in his favor (him falling asleep or being just "not that into it" after), I have found it harder and harder to get off with him and I can't even reach climax alone. I can't help but feel worse and worse and to the point I'm getting depressed and feeling like I'm doing something wrong. I love him but I fear this will drive us apart.