I let my boyfriend finger me allot I need some advice as I'm only 13

Hi i'm 20, but lost my virginity at 17. A lot of my friends lost theirs before me and i know they regret it now. I know i didn't feel comfortable letting a guy touch me like that until i was a little older but i think it's personal choice. If you feel comfortable enough to be that close with your boyfriend then fair enough. However, i would recommend not having sex until you are at least 16 and just enjoy being young. Kiss lots of guys, have lots of boyfriends and make mistakes, but don't make the mistake of being pregnant yet; trust me it isn't worth it. If your boyfriend loves you he will understand that you want to wait. Do not give in.

Hope this helps

I'd wait. I was too young.

13 is 8th grade bud -_-

oh lord girls 13 is too young for sex. enjoy fooling around touching kissing cuddling. im only 25 and i lost my virginity at 14. i really wish i hadnt. it wasnt special and i having talked to the boy i lost it to since i was 15. it isnt worth it your virginity is special and in highschool and esecially after highschool. being a virgin is HOT and guys will respect you WAY more. you'll get dates with guys who want to wine and dine you. instead of just take you to bed. there is NOTHING hotter than a girl you have to work for. My boyfriend and im sure any guy you ask whose over 17 will agree. save it for some one special when your old enough that you dont have to do it on ur parents couch.... maybe in college in ur dorm room. but make sure its a boy who respects you loves you and treats you like the precious woman you are.!!!!!!!

some times its easier to ask strangers. they dont know you so they cant hurt you with their judgments

Im 20 and hadnt lost my virginity! Woohoo! But i almost had sex at 14 but i did the right thing i told my boyfriend no! My aunts sister is 67 and hasnt lost her virginity yet but i feel bad for her though because she wont be able to have sex.

Dear LilShorty
I think it is good that you had the sense to say 'no'. That will pay dividends for the future. You have something special to take to your marriage.
What I don't understand is why your aunt's sister will not be able to have sex.

Hi........well there isnt any danger of you getting pregnant if he only puts his finger intoyou. He would have to put his penis into you for that to happen....I mean do real sex with you. Just his finger wont get you preg so no worries there. if the guy is gentle and not rough when he does it , it can feel really good. So if you are ok with it happeneing, then do it. You wont be pregnant:)

This happened over 10 months ago, so she will know by now the outcome! However it is rather misleading to say "there isnt any danger of you getting pregnant if he only puts his finger intoyou" because if there were sperm on his fingers then, finger insertion would have introduced sperm into her vagina. It is just not true that "He would have to put his penis into you for that to happen". Indeed semen ejaculated in the vulval area could find its way into the vagina.

YOU ARE PREGNANT, TELL YOUR MOM IMMEDIATELY!!!! CALL THE COPS!!!! 

I think 13 is too young to be fingered... I'm 16, going on 17 this year, and it was only within the last year that I let my bf finger me. I didn't even have a bf (and he's my age) until beg of sophomore year. I'd lay off on the physical stuff until you're older. Since your bf's older and you're still kind of young, he might want to take advantage of you, no matter what he says. If you have sex at this age, you could get pregnant and it can lead to problems later on in life. Don't do anything you'll regret, even if you don't feel that you'll regret it at the moment. 

he behaves like that because he is 17 already, he wants to have sex and he is preparing you to. While he does what he is doing he is making you think that it wont be any different if instead his finger it is his penis. Men are very crafty in that matter. I would suggest that you try to hung out with boy younger than him, you are 13 and of course you are curious and no one can criticize that, and it feels good to feel wanted. However, as you mentioned you don't want to be a pregnant teenager, so dont go to your room with him, only invite him home when your mom is around... don't be afraid of saying NO. Once you do that he might even try to manipulate you and ask you if you really like him why you dont want to do it. Be very straight forward, and strength the woman you are and will be, and see in the future if you see yourself with a baby in your arms before finishing high school. A woman is not only to have sex with, remember that; and if the only thing you end up doing is getting into your bed, it wont lead you to any good.  Think in the consequences, more likely to avoid them is worth to wait to be mature enough to take smart decisions. You have so much to see to do it with a 17 years old boy that more likely will be a memory if you become a really successful professional and travel around the world... really, im telling you as you were my little sister.

That is dangerous advice. There are plenty of things might make you feel good, but are not good for you.

ew thats slaggy, your 12, not even a teen yet.

YOU ARE TOO YOUNG FINGERS WILL LOOSE YOUR VIRGINITY,RUPTURE YOUR HYMEN AND EVEN YOU ENJOY NO PROBLEM AS FINGER WILL NEVER CAUSE PREGNANCY BUT IT WILL OCCUR AS AFTER STIMULATION YOUR FRIEND 17YRS WILL FORCE HIS PENIS INSIDE YOUR VAGINA YOU GETTING TOO MUCH EXCITEMENT MAYNOT OPPOSE HIM AND RATHER WILL ENJOY IT AS YOU ENJOYED FINGERING SO BETTER AVOID IT TO BE PREGANNT AT THIS AGE WILL COMPLETELY DESTROY YOUR SCHOOLING AND FUTURE DREAMS