I let my boyfriend finger me allot I need some advice as I'm only 13

That is mostly true profdrram (but please don't shout)

However your statement that "FINGER WILL NEVER CAUSE PREGNANCY" is misleading. A finger can transfer sperm into the vagina which could then lead to pregnancy.

haiii, i dont think theres a problem, cuz you are acting mature about it and you dont appear to feel guilty. If you enjoyed it and your happy then thats good. Just make sure you dont have sex yet, ik you know not to. Im ur age, and my boyfriend have done that too. I touched him too. Theres no prob with that. Just make sure, you stay safe. 

xoxo, 

slimshadylover

I've been thinking about this also. I want a baby but I know I need too wait and we both understand we can't afford one right now. We haven't done anything other than I let him rub my tits and kiss my neck and make out. I sit on his lap and he pretends that he is sticking it in me but he's not he is basically dry f*****g me. I love him we've been together for 6 months

Also we are both 16 and we are moving in together. We both turn 17 on Saturday. We both have jobs and we both have been saving up his mom said we could live there until we get a house but if I get preg then we have too move. We talked about getting me preg when we both turn 19 or 20

So why not get married? Then you will have a secure situation into which you can bring a baby?

I say go for it. Have sex with him. use a condom and I promise you you will remember it for a long time and letting him take your cherry will make you closer. Just do it. Let him have sex with you but use condom. You will not regrat it. It will best thing that every happens to you. Hot sex with someone you love.

GO for it. I would. Sex is fun!

Yes, it will be remembered for a long time, but probably with regret. Many on here regret it.
It will make you closer (for a while) because sex is a bonding action that cannot be undone, but will detract from future relationships, and you will probably regret it.
If it is supposed to be the best thing that ever happens to you, then it proves you shouldn't do it. You then have nothing better to look forward to. How sad!!

being careful is important. it isnt wrong to have sex but there are risks involved. masterbation can be equally pleasurable. make sure you arent being exploited and think before doing anything.

I fnger nail yu

Ok jizz is not seperate to cum,it's the same thing.Ones not clear and ones not white lol.Or do you mean precum...means a guy is really turned on.If you knew you was going to be sexualy active you should of put your self on birth control or at least used a condom.

I'm 22 had 3 relationships and i have no kids....as i'm safe.

im fifteen,nearly sixteen&my boyfriend has only just turned 18, we have liked eachother for 3years yet have both been to shy to admit it until a few months ago when he asked me to be his girlfriend&i said yes.. i think 13 isnt an age for you to begin doing things like this, yet because of the age gap, and your boyfriend being a couple years older, this leads to him wanting to do things, such as sex, lets face it, hes only human! and boys arnt like us girls who want to wait till we find the right one, and then wait another 6months to make sure that they are the right one, boys like to explore, some boys are way more forward then girls are.. Only you can control what you do with this boy, and before you do decide to do things with your boyfriend, make sure you know he is the right one for you, especially him being your first time, call me old-fashioned, but i really think your first time should be special, mine wasn't. i lost it to my ex, and just like you and your boyfriend, i was younger than him and he wanted to..lets say, 'explore', i lost it to him, as made me believe he loved me&that hed never leave my side, but once he got what he wanted (sex), he left me soon after, on my birthday, yep, you'll learn that many lads are like that. but because of him ive learned to take things slowly, and to not trust someone straight away. i mean, even now my boyfriends older, but im definately more mature and i learned from my mistakes,yeah i love him. hope i could help!xoxoxox

One day fingering&all this will lead to sex. So be careful,think what your mother would think off all of this. Would she be proud? Its like he's taking advantage off you,he's done it once,so he thinks he can do it any time he wants,even though you like it,you just won't say no

Don't do any of that stuff it's gross I'm 13 an I wanted to have sex with my bf but didn't want to have the probs that people have when they get prego. I strongly suggest to wait but if u can't wait use at least 2 condemns and ALOT of prego pills so nothing does happen. Hope i helped! Britt

Talk to gf or somthing and see what they say