I let my boyfriend finger me allot I need some advice as I'm only 13

Well...You said he paused before he started right? So he wasn't sure if he should do that with you just yet or not...I would say save sex for way later in life *preferably until you're at least married* But if you decide to have sex before that wear protection!!!!!!!!! It is obviously up to you to ask your mother for birth control, but if you don't make sure he wears a condom. On the other hand, as long as you don't take it too far and as long as you are alright with him fingering you, I would let him. Just make sure to tell him if you feel too uncomfortable or if anything is going too far too fast. Also if it hurts too much and continues to hurt, the vaginal walls can get irritated with rubbing too fast too soon so if that happens I suggest stopping and waiting a few days...He seems like he respects you and as long as you're sure he's not using you and you don't go too far and it doesn't hurt I think you are alright.

honey, hormones are a strong thing and they can cause alot of action. you are only 13 years old. if you keep this up it wont become just fingering, eventually itll become sex you will soon get bored of fingers and want more, you wont become pregnet unless you have sex. whacth what you do. if he really did respect you he would realize you are only 13-14 years old and not do that stuff. im not trying to be all grannyish im 16, my boyfreind truly respects me even at this age. you want someone who wants more than your body honey. he may not force you but a real man would stop himself.

Oh my god! Stop! I'm 13 and I got preg. At age 12. I totally understand the urge, but it may be the worst mistake if your life!!! Plus, afterwards, my parents kicked me out and I now spend my days in foster care. Your parents may not be like that, but not worth findin out. PLEASE, don't do it. Talk to your mum/doctor at the least. He'll even you friend could help. Just please don't make the same mistake I did.

You shouldn't be doing this sort of stuff! I'm only 12 and I would never let a boy do this to me! It is horrible! Many girls may think different bu he is 17 that is horrid! I haven't got a boyfriend atm and if they done that to be I would kick them out and dump him straight Away!! My sister is about 18 and she has a boyfriend who is 21 and they have 2dogs and a house! he asked to have sex apbut she said NO!! So why should you do that is she wouldn't do it and she's frisking 18! You and your boyfriend are terrible and you and many others have ruined OUR generation!!!! I have had many boys call me 'babe' 'fit' 'nice bum' 'nice tits' but I have not brought them into my house and let the finger Me!! My mum would be screaming at me if I ever did!! 

What are you doing leave boys alone you are still young. You will leave to regret what you have started because you won't be able to end it.

you go get it girl

 

WHAT?! U shouldn't do that! Ur going to get really hurt if u continue! Believe it or not but u can get really injured because ur only 13/14 I'm 16 and I have been injured because of that! Please..stop..tell him that u are too young still to do that!

13 Really Please talk to someone

13 really too young to be talking about these things.  Please talk to someone and get out

You know that that's statutory rape right?

yea i am 15 an my bf is eighteen an he fingered me

Your virginity is something sacred! I advise you that you wait until your married because that's a special gift that you could only give once in your lifetime. You say your boyfriend respects you but in my opinion he doesn't respect you enough because if he did he would know that what he is doing to you is WRONG!!! Respect yourself and your body! Not many girls can say that they were a virgin when they get married but wish they were. If a boy wait let me rephrase that a man( because a boy and girl shouldn't be having sex) really RESPECTS YOU and LOVES YOU...he will wait and save himself only for you. its so easy to get pleasure by anyone when it comes to sex. That's why many relationships fail because when they can't get it from a certain someone they just hop on to the next person. Sad but true. ENJOY BEING YOUNG WITH NO OBLIGATIONS and when you get older find a MAN that will value you and respect you and your body!!

K,u should let him do it aslong as your comfortable but draw a barrier because you dont want get pregnant k. ~hannah

Just dont do anything stupid, you dont wanna do stupid things. Dont have sex with your boyfriend. And u decide What Else is stupid to do when you're only 13/14

Hey I would love 2 do that 2 u too ;)

P.S. I'm a chick