I'm 17 & he's 17. We have had sex an still do. I've been with him for a year & a half. We have sex, occasionally. He always wants to finger me and eat me but I don't feel comfortable doing that, although I would like to. He respects me and what I want but he thinks he's doing somethin wrong. When we have sex, it's mature sex not a** sex or roll-play, or anything like that. I really want to losen up, I need help?!?!?!
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Do you know why you don't feel comfortable about oral sex? My wife was like that too but she was always into it when I was doing it. After I (or she) was finished she always withdrew from me like we had done something dirty. I was never able to get her over that.
I suspect it was caused by her mother doing what mothers were famous for in my day. Drilling their daughters with "sex is horrible, sex is dirty, DON"T do it!!!!" My own mother tried to make me believe that too, with "don't ever touch a girl THERE or THERE". After losing the first girl I really cared about because she found a guy who WOULD touch her "there and there" I decided my mother was wrong.
Sex is intended for two people to enjoy together and it's wonderful when you work together to please both of you. To me doing oral sex on my partner is the only way to fully satisfy her as vaginal sex doesn't do much for many (most?) women. After being satisfied, having a penis inside you is a great feeling but not usually the wonder of all wonders.
So work out what you both like best and enjoy.
And never feel guilty.
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