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When my boyfriend and I have sex or do anything close to, he comes pretty quickly which is pretty inconvenient when it comes to sex. When he comes, he's too tired and limp to keep going when I myself am way far from orgasm.
So would it help to get him off first so it takes me him longer the second time around (which we found happens) then stimulate me before/while allowing him to become roused the same time I'm being prepared? Or does that sort of thing just not work?

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Do more foreplay. Tell him to play with you a little more than usual. Stimulate your body, maybe be creative and use a blindfold as this enhances your senses making your body much more sensitive. =)
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When I was first married I would come almost at the thought of going inside her. Often I would just get the head inside it's nice warm home and it would be so happy ------ kaboom!!!! I already knew that it would take longer for the the second coming, so we tried that for awhile. But we found that she didn't come well through vaginal stimulation, so I could never do it long enough for her to come.



I tried oral on her to get her off as many times as she liked, then I would go inside to complete the job. This worked well because I would always come once while I was just hanging loose without even touching my penis, while I was doing oral on her. It seemed to be timed to coincide with her orgasm. Eventually we were able to time it so that we both came together after I was inside her. That wasn't as hard as it sounds because my orgasms seemed to be triggered by hers.



So I think you just need to practice until you find what works for you.
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hi there

sorry to hear about your problem

I think the best thing to do is to experiment with bringing him off first
and then se how he fairs after that.

there are allot of factors that can effect premature ejaculation
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