I lost my virginity about a week and a half ago a couple days before I was supposed to start my period. He used a condom and I dont think he came since we didnt do it for very long and he's experienced. My period didn't come so I figured it was just changing dates because my period was late last month too (i have irregular periods in general) I have a lot of anxiety and I know stress can pause periods which is probably the case but I cant stop worrying about it. A day after I had sex a had cramps and they went away a few hours later but showed up again when I was supposed to have my period. Im 17 and cant tell my parents because they are very strict. Im scared and need some reassurance :( I also asked a coworker I could trust if she could buy me a test