I started bleeding a very red color

I know this is scary for you.  I don't think you need to worry too much, I think you are going to be fine.  But I do have some questions.  Before that though, I am trusting you that you can recognize a medical emergency. If this qualifies you need to call 911. Don't risk your life out of fear of your parents finding out.  Please understand that I honestly think you will be ok, but it is imperative you seek medical care if you need it.  I know I am repeating myself, I am just emphasizing.

Are you in a situation where you need immediate medical care?

 

I have an idea about what is going on but I need to know the symptoms first.  If you are there right now, we will concentrate on this and get you taken care of.  Please respond if you are there.

Assuming you did not have a medical emergency, there is even more reason not to worry. My wife had that happen to her as well. It doesn't mean it is the same thing, but I just wanted you to know others have gone through something like that before. In fact, you aren't the only asking a question describing this concern. You are not alone in this.

You can respond whenever you have time if you would like to discuss this. Just remember that it may take some time to respond depending on what is going on over here.

Hi

As Hypnomorph say's unless you think there some other cause making it a medical emergency don't worry it happens this way, and has happened to me a few times.  I think; and I've no fact to base this on just my own experiences but I think doing it this way causes much deeper penetration, and I don't know if the repeated (I really want a better word but it's 7am here pre coffee lol) banging either knocks some of your next period loose or just damages and bruises inside causing the bleeding, I never looked into it so it's total guessing. If your partner is slightly too big for you when you have sex in this position try not to put your bum up too high and he wont be able to penetrate so deeply next time, similarly if this happens when he's on top you may want to put your hands on his hip bones to stop him being able to get the full length in,  I dont think they even notice this is why your doing it, and it saves the John Wayne walk of shame the next morning lol

I hope this helps<3

I really think Violet Cherry is right, this was the direction I was heading but I lack the necessary experiences to have any faith on my thinking. This was my wife's thought also. I think Violet explained it superbly, pretty damn good for a guess. That is exactly what happened to wife immediately after a pap test not that long ago. In her case, RA left her more susceptible to that happening.

Please don't hesitate to ask any questions you may have or raise any concerns. We would be happy to help. Violet is far more qualified than I am on these issues, so I would suggest asking her. However, I would happy to assist you if needed.

Im here. Its still bleeding but its light. And im on birth control too.

And im scared to have sex again.

That is perfectly understandable. Being male, I am not an expert on this, but we talk it out. I really think what Violet Cherry posted is the most likely cause. My wife had it after a pap, and we have had happen too us at least twice, I think three times. Would you like to talk to her? She does have personal experience with this.

I will be able to concentrate on this in a couple of hours. Do you think you will be available? If not, can you give me some idea of when you might be? The reason I ask is it will allow us to talk almost real time and we can we can make faster progress. I don't want this to be drawn out for you. We can continue just as we are as well.

I am sure Violet Cherry will be on later as well. I am sure she is willing to discuss this with you. You certainly don't have to be stuck with me. After all, there are things I just cannot understand since they do not effect my gender.

Im here. Its still bleeding but its light. And im on birth control too.

Ok, can you give me an hour? Finishing dinner, washing, clothes, etc?

If not, if you can be patient with me I can switch back and forth.

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I am sorry it took so long. much longer than I said. Please accept my apologies, your situation is the last thing I wanted to let fall through the cracks. I am sincerely sorry for leaving you hang. I have excuses of course, but I feel really bad about this.

Are you still there? If not, when you see this please respond and tell me when. I will make sure I don't screw it up again.

Well the bleeding stopped but my boyfriend insits on going to see if anything i should be concerened about but im scared of hospitals and things like that

Thank you guys so much!! You really helped A LOT :)

First, I hope you accept my apology.  And again, would you like to discuss this with my wife? Talking to someone who shares the experience may help you.  I can also do some research on your behalf.