I'm 15 and tried sex with my boyfriend once and we agreed not to do it again. I felt like I needed to tell my mom and I did but now she won't allow me to see him. Not seeing him is hurting me emotionally because I really liked him and I'm scared to break up. What should I do?
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talk to you mom about how you are growing up and you wanted to try new things out. explain to her its what you wanted to do but you have decided you dont want to do it again. explain how you wanted to share it with her so you wasnt alone in the matter try make her understand about your feeling for this lad aswell. even though she is your mum she needs to let you live your life and make your own mistakes, good luck i hope it all goes well
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Hi honey! You have to see it from your moms side, you went to her (which I think was honorable) and she thinks you are going to talk to her about friend or boyfriend problems then you drop a bomb on her by telling her that you have lost your virginity to your boyfriend!! She wasn't ready for that honey, and she was probably not ready for you being SO open about such things! As I am sure - just like myself - she was raised NOT talking about sex to our parents! My God I couldn't say "sextet" without getting a slap across the head!
Did you tell her that you tried and wont be doing it again? IF you missed the part about NOT doing it again you need to bring that up! This is what I would do If I was in your position - sit and write her a heartfelt letter! Tell her that you wanted to be open with her and didn't want to be like other girls you know who don't talk about things to their moms. Also tell her that you and your boyfriend had talked about it before and planned it out and were trying to see what all the fuss was about. It didn't work out and you wont be doing it again anytime soon! And that you felt guilty that you should have talked to her about it. Tell her just how much you love your boyfriend and how he is good and caring to you, and ask her how she would feel IF her mother had banned her from seeing your dad or her first love? You need to let her know that you trust her SO much that you wanted to be open, but now you think you shouldn't tell her anything anymore - and you don't want to be like that. And IF you were mature enough to think the intimacy through and plan for it, and mature enough to tell her, you are also mature enough to have a decent respectful relationship, and to NOT make the same mistakes again!
Whatever you do, do NOT threaten - eg. IF you don't allow me to see him I'm going to anyway - those do NOT work! What can work is communication and honesty! Leave her - after reading the letter - thinking about ALL that you said and I guarantee you that she WILL start going through it all and trying to figure out HOW to save face and still keep her morals intact! And you need to led her know that you WILL follow her rules, and respect her!
I just wanted to check that you DID use protection?
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give her time to carm down as your with family for life soo try not to piss them off boys are like buses another one along in a min, goood lucky xxxxxxx
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Ok your told your mom you had sex that is still so much better then what happened to me and my bf my mom fond me with his penis in my moth so not cool
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