I’m 21 and I want to know if I am still a virgin. I tried to have sex with my boyfriend and we only did it once and I don’t know if I’m still a virgin because he could only put inside what I can put with my own finger which is not a lot. Also, his penis is small and that’s part of the reason I wanted to do it so it don’t hurt me much. But it did hurt me but I wasn’t turned on/turned on enough so I don’t know if that’s the reason why my vagina feels irritated but it’s not swollen. It’s been 2 days and I still feel like this. I don’t know if I hurt my walls or something trying to rush it. Today he tried to put a finger inside but I still don’t feel comfortable as I were when I was for sure a virgin. I’m still tight inside and supposedly his finger got deeper this time but I think he just wants to feel proud that he was the first to ever go inside me because it still hurts me like hell but I’m very sensitive. Please help!!