i want my wife to have sex with another man

Don't do it man. Its the devil trying to mess you up so you get sent to hell. Look it up.... Hell is real.

Hi, it'd be great to know where your from? And i'm really interested, would be good to see a picture too

Thanks for your advice Sally. I know I may have come across quite arrogant in my previous comment, but I assure you i'm level headed and down to earth!

We r from Amman, Jordan

i am in similar situation as really excites me the thought of my wife getting another man hard . She admitted that she has fantasised about it previously but feels odd abut it now as she is married now. I bought her a dildo much bigger than me and act out her allowing the dildo to be another man even given him a name . When we do it it drives her cagy and she craves me talking dirty to her about what the other guy is doing to her. I even double up and take her anally when we do it and she in another world. I have asked her to soft swing i.e. - touch another mans penis get it hard and see how she feels so small steps with her in control each step of way.

My Wife and I use to swing we tried just about everything MFM FFM Group Sex but I always found that I enjoyed watching her with another Man we did swing with other couples way to much drama kinda got away from that and only did 3somes mostly I watched it has brought us very close and never had any issues with jelousy if anything we got very close. We no longer swing mostly because we have Teenagers and don't want them to find out. Anyways this type of lifestyle will never fix any issue in your marrage but will enhance a Good Marriage. Bye the way we have been married 27 Years. Good luck and keep up the good work.

My wife wants to have sex with other men, I myself wants her to have sex with other men only if it's my rules which she agrees with totally. So we're do I get men from to f**k her, what site do I go on, this is all new to us and have a private house we can use, also she wants to charge for certain things such as blow, f**k, wank etc.

My wife and I tried swinging a few times she did not like it she preferred men always I was okay with that as long as she was happy. We were married over 50 years this went on through our entire marriage. I hope other people have the luck that we had throughout our entire marriage.

I I love the bones of her and if it's what she wants to do so be it, I myself don't want to f**k someone else, just want her to be happy. She is mid forties I am mid fifties we have both been promiscuous in the past so know what we want, we have talked at length over this an it's the way forward for both of us, we both frikkin love sex.

Yes I am worried about this aspect of letting her f**k someone else, but if she wants to do it she will, we will have rules but u can never b a 100% sure what they sayin to each other, this is we're trust comes into a relationship.

We wouldn't mind trying the swinging scene, we a bit niece and wouldn't know we're to start, if you could suggest ????

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Im interested and mature

me and my wife have been married for 36 years we have 2 grown up children and for the last 5 years i have been watching my wife have sex with other men it was all my idea and after some failed experiences at first we found a very nice man who said he could organise anything i had in mind and we have been using him ever since i have watched her with single men groups of men men of all ages 16 to 75 years old i much prefer her being gang banged most of our friends and family know what we get up to some disapprove but thats their problem we are both 55 years old and we will not be stopping for a long time yet

I read the posts by curiouschuck and m harris and got a huge hardon by it.  My wife and I have been married for 20 years, together 25 years and she has never, ever, ever, desired another man.  For the past couple years, I have had the strongest, most gripping desire for her to f**k other men, preferably, men much better hung than me, and would love them to be black guys.  For some reason, I want her to experience "better sex" with bigger men than me.   I want the whole act, no condoms, and for her to do it repeatedly!  I cant explain why I want this, but I have read that it is very common.  The problem is, my wife is not interested, which I really cant understand, being of the male mindset.  I have not given up, but it is not going as easily as I want it too.  I would love to talk to anyone about it privately,

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I was able to get my wife to try it once and she almost did it again with the same guy but, she said he got to pushy and she got discouraged and didn't do it again. The guy didn't know that I knew about it and she was just scared that she would get hooked after a couple of times and have feelings for the guy and she knows she is vulnerable but, it is addicting for me but, she thinks that I am trying to get rid of her and I am not and she just needs reasurrance that it is ok to do it and sometimes even I get pushy when the subject comes up and at times she seems to almost want to do it again but, she seems scared that something might go wrong and she might just enjoy it too much and since I didn't want her to use protection she is worried she might get preg from the other guy and it is part of the excitement for her to take a chance with the other guy and she is tempted to but, something holds her back. Don't be pushy and approach it differently whenever the subject arrises.