i want my wife to have sex with another man

sex is beautiful ,and depends on , what kind of having sex makes you and your partner happy, I came to the conclusion that the people who love there partners .,normally dream about their partner to have sex and enjoy an other person.
this is what we do a love each other very much

Well my wife had a strange affair, infact weird.

 We are both in our early 30s with 2 kids and happily married, my wife is very attractive girl, too short for the catwalk but occasionally models make up. So she is attractive which makes this all the more strange.

 I’ll explain a bit more we had been at a large party and stranger begun an alcohol fuelled conversation with me; we started talking about the women at party. Men talk and mostly rubbish; I was hardly listening but he started telling how this guy that we both knew was having an affair with this young wife and repeating all the gory details the said guy had described him. Yip you guessed it he eventually indicates my wife; doesn’t know that’s my wife.

 I didn’t believe him, or rather decided that this guy had been feeding him his fantasies; the reason being this guy my wife was supposed to be having an affair with was in his early sixties, fat and bald and there was not a hope in hell that my wife would even glance in his direction.

 Well next day I was in the shower and she was brushing her teeth and I remembered the conversation and told her about it. There was an instant response but she was brushing her teeth but when she did say something she kind of laughed and said yes I like old fat hairy men.

 OK forward a year and she has come home after shopping for clothes and I noticed an angora sweater she had bought; something triggered my mind to that party conversation. The guy had described how the affair had begun; basically this old guy had taken his chance at Christmas works night out on a girl wearing an angora sweater without a bra. My wife quite often doesn’t wear a bra; another factor was that once the affair has begun the this guy had told this wife only to wear her sweater with stockings when she visited him and cover herself with a coat on the journey. My wife sometimes wears stockings when going out, hmm.

 It sounds silly that after year that I suddenly started considering the possibilities; but about a month of fretting I have almost convinced myself it’s a possibility. Oh yeah this guy at this point has died with a heart attack about 6 months past.

How do you invent a reason to ask your wife about a very improbable affair on the most tenuous suspicions?  Wait until you are both drunk and do it jokingly; well she confessed. Bloody hell even though I knew I was being paranoid when she admitted it I was in shock.

 It was just as the guy at the party had described; she said that even though he was physically unattractive to her at the Christmas night he had persuaded her and some of her friends to wait his house nearby to wait for a taxi. Two of her friends live in the opposite side of town to us, so after she was alone he made his move. Why? she said she was feeling hot and she was drunk and the turn on was his bulk relative to her being petite. She had never been in a sexual position where she was physically not in control and this affair continued because she enjoyed the submissive of the situation.

 Well I forgave her; we have two kids after all and this was never an affair of the heart but something seedier. It’s been about two years now and here is the strange twist to the situation; about four months back we came back in after a night out and I and had to much lager and wasn’t able to function. Almost about going to sleep when my wife wakens me back up but now she is wearing that sweater and the stockings. Yip it did the trick all right and she has used it several times now, we don’t talk about why it’s such a hot feeling, there is no point we would end up both feeling guilty.

 I am not advocating the swinging or cuckold life style because I believe that you cannot manufacture erotica and to try would be destructive to a relationship. It sometime happens by accident so when it does you might as well enjoy it.  

 Oh yeah women are stranger than you think!

 

 

 

 

 

why would she leave? if she can do him when she want and your ok with it as long as your with them, and she is getting both.

i m ready

yes its true no one is

This is my situation. My wife and I have a fantasy of having a  3 some with another female. We are going on a get away soon and will hope to make it happen then. We both are very turned on by the idea. My wife has kissed and touched another female with clothes on never naked. She wants to do this with me involved. Of course being a man I am all for it and was very turned on when she played with another female in front of me. She wants me to fully participate. 

I have the same fantasy as the original poster. I do not want to join in, I just want to watch. Many years ago we seperated and I was with someone else and she knows everything. She knows my fantasy and she says she wants to experience another man, I was not her first but to her I was the first real man she was with and she wants to experience another man because I have been with another woman. She thinks its very strange I want to watch her and and another man.

Any thoughts or comments?

Try taking her to an adult theatre.i took my wife after 13 yrs of marraige,for our first swinging adventure!she sucked her first bbc there!i plan on having her get gangbanged there next time!

we have been married 32 yrs and im trying ask her if she would totry out a young male friend for fun and let me watch, trying to spice up our sex life.

Good luck. May I ask what is your wifes age and the male your wanting her to hook up with age? Is she open to the idea of hooking up with a younger man or another man at all? I think we will make my fantasy and one of her fantasies come true in New Orleans in a couple months.

its ok my hot wife and i tk a neighbour iinto bed and he screwed her to multi orgasms i fuced her next and she came like never before my wife enjoyed it no harm

A wife’s perspective:

For the last 30 years my husband has been sharing me with 2 other men, in spouse trading/swinging with another couple and the other with our single friend. 

It started when we were on vacation with the other couple, one night we were talking about sex drives and stamina.  My husband and the other wife have almost no sex drive and stamina, while the other husband and I have extremely high sex drive and stamina.  When my husband and the other wife suggested that we (the other husband and I) should see who can last the longest, we looked each other and chuckled.  A few minutes later I got up the courage and took other husband hand and lead him to a bedroom.  That night I had the best sex of my live, I never knew what it was like to be sexually satisfied until that night, he felt the same way.

The next morning we all talked about what happened and if we wanted to continue.  All of us agreed that is was a wonderful night and we all wanted it to continue.  Then we set the rules and boundaries, 1.No one does anything without all of the others knowing, 2. All sexual encounters are prearranged and everyone is aware of time, place and everyone is there.  The only exception to the rules is when the other husband and I go on our vacations without our spouses. 

My husband and the other wife have sex, not very often, and that works for them.  The other husband and I want sex more than once every few months, on our vacations we will have sex several times a day – every day.

The only reason my husband and I have threesomes is he wanted to be with me when I was having an orgasm.  The other husband did feel comfortable with the idea of being in bed with another guy, but they agreed to let my husband and I having threesomes.  The threesomes started as MFM and changed to MMF when my husband discovered that he likes to perform oral on our male friend.

My advice to any woman that is considering being shared by their husband, or if your husband expresses interest in watching you have sex with another man.  If you think you man can handle seeing you being sexual satisfied - do not hesitate.

The bull we hear “she is going to run off with the other guy”, why would I, he enjoys it as much as I do.  A wonderful man like my husband is one of a kind, what other man would be so concerned with me being sexually satisfied that they would encourage me sleep with our male friends.

Do I enjoy being shared – YES, Both my husband and I doHow does it feel – It feels WONDERFUL, I thank my husband after every timeWould I leave my Husband – NEVER, he is a wonderful man and the father of our 3 childrenWould I recommend this lifestyle to a friend – ABSOLUTELY

Thank you for your input

Keep taking her out and someone will attract her again and it will be on. That is how my wife started and now it's is several times a week will mostly people we know but a few strangers.

A thing or two (or three):

-Women tend to get tired of the same male partner some 2-3 years after marriage.
-Children can do strange things to them; they start feeling unsexy and sometimes want to "prove themselves"
-A new male will give them a sexual high, however much illogical this may seem.
-Guys sometimes enjoy (subconsciously) the idea of having to 'share' their wife. Sperm competition? Or "fight" for her.

You seem to be describing this....

One of you might get jealous or attached as you go on ...

This is my only fear (my fantasy too... which male wouldn't want it)?