I'm a 13 year old girl and stimulate myself all the time?

Oh_heyy_there317474 over a year ago

HELPP??! I'm a 13 year old girl and I always masterbate. It feels so good but I always feel guilty after doing it. Tbh I probably masterbate once a day. I'm always wondering if my mom would hate me and think I'm disgusting if she found out.... My friends too. The only other person I know that does it too is my cousin. And also, what are some good ways to masterbate? ;) I've tried fingers and rubbing in circular motions, markers, the shower head, electronic toothbrush and the end of a brush. I usually use my fingers and rub in circular motions. But whenever I do that for a few minutes my lower section of my body starts to shake and I can't do anymore. It feels super good but I hate that I never have enough strength to go longer when I get that way. Is it normal for me to be like this? I feel like a freak

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Hayleygg123 over a year ago

Hi I'm 14 and I can tell you this is normal I masterbate myself and I love it. It's normal for you at this age to explore your body like this. You can tell you mother and I sure she won't be mad. Just don't tell your friends because this sort of thing is personal. What I usually do Is go to a calm quiet place and just do stuff I like rubbing your body in different areas . Think of a fantasy anything that really turns you on thb. For the body shakeing thing maybe your body can't handle to much pleasure. Try getting close to that stage then stopping just before it. Do this a few times every time you masterbate and you could get past that shakeing. Lastly sometimes it takes awhile toto orgasm. Other then everything you have already done I can't think of more. Also your not a freak your hormones are kicking in and that's where all this crazy stuff comes from. Hope I helped!

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Oh_heyy_there317474 over a year ago

Thank you this helped a lot :)

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Guest over a year ago

I am the same age and I masturbate a lot too, sometimes I feel guilty but I sometimes dont. I use things like my hairbrush and big markers and I often end up doing it more than just once a day, sometimes two or even 3. I feel like a freak sometimes too and I watch porn which makes it worse but it helps and turns me on when I am doing it so my orgasms can be very very strong. I would hate for my mom to find out to, but most girls our age are probably going through this because of our hormones and what we watch and think about.

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andre1993307645 over a year ago

Hope it is okay sharing some thoughts with you guys?

I suppose that we humans always have felt guilt because it is tabu and very embarrassing to ask and talk about it. If a 13 year old boy/girl suddenly says to his parents: can someone teach me how to masturbate? I want to start doing that today. I can't imagine that happening! Or ever will happening. My thoughts about this is: we have sexual needs, just like we have other needs. Food,water,air,social contact and around our puberty, sexual curiosity goes to sexual needs. And later we feel the need for someone to live with and have sex with. If we masturbates without bothering other people, it isn't nothing wrong to do it. Some do it often, other do it only a couple of times through puberty. Both are normal, as I see it.

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Guest over a year ago

same here u just gotta keep doing it, get ya'll body used to it

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fiona over a year ago

Whats your number i can help

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andre1993307645 over a year ago

47 988 70 525,call Grethe or Unni, if you really will help them.Two girls at 14.

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Guest over a year ago

I'm a guy but I can tell you this is natural in all teens and young adults boys,girls.. And there is nothing wrong or weird about it and I'm sure if your parents new they would love you the same.

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andre1993307645 over a year ago

It wasn't me who wrote the telephone number above. It must have been two friends of me, for a few hours ,they had access to my laptop,and all my usernames and passwords did they find in a little book beside the laptop. I am sorry for what they did!

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Guest over a year ago

Hi I'm 13, and I've been feeling turned on, i guess,but when I touch myself , I don't feel anything. Please help!

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