Hello people,, I'm a girl and I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now and i love him to bits. Only recently while he was going down on me and fingering me, i started to feel like my downstairs was about explode and he told me to relax and just let things happen so i did and stuff came out of me which wasn't "natural Lube " I'm pretty sure of that but I'm not sure if i had an orgasm but during it i felt like i disappeared for a couple of seconds but i didn't feel amazing , what i want to know is whether that is possible advice and opinions would be great :) x
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Its hard to explain and orgasim. But like, It gets all tingily down there and it makes you want to just keep going. And when it happens, your legs kinda give out, but not really. idk. you'll know if you orgasm. I didnt know what to say or what you wanted help with really, but i tryed. Hope it helps a little bit? (:
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"it i felt like i disappeared for a couple of seconds"
The French call it the little death. Sounds pretty close to what you experienced, to me. What do you think?
You are also what they call a squirter. That should make your bf ecstatic.
The French call it the little death. Sounds pretty close to what you experienced, to me. What do you think?
You are also what they call a squirter. That should make your bf ecstatic.
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I have the same problem. Try masturbating its the only way i can orgasim. If your not comfortable with masturbating try telling him exactly what feels good and what to do and keep focused on what hes doing to your body.
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I'm a male and it's easy to tell if a girl is orgasming if you are going down on them and fingering and the same time, your boyfriend should have felt the contractions on his fingers like a squeezing sensation.
Orgasms release endorphins and you should feel relaxed and pleased after one. On the physical side, from what my exs have told me, you should feel the muscles contracting in and around your vagina and should be a little bit sore afterwards, you should also find it hard to control your legs and hips whilst orgasming and will probably crush his skull a little bit.
I recommend you ask your boyfriend to try it again, pay more attention to foreplay, I find I get the best facial expressions if I produce at least half an hour of foreplay. And to tell him to keep going after you have ejaculated - this may only have been the start of your climax. Tell your boyfriend to go slowly to begin with, not to jump straight to the clit, the more aroused you are the harder you'll orgasm.
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