So me and my boyfriend have been dating for a while, but we haven't had sex and I don't plan on having sex for a while, hopefully I can wait until college. But anyways all we ever do is he fingers me and I give him a hand job and occasionally he goes down on me. One night he fingered me a lot harder than normal and it kind of hurt, but it felt good at the same time so I just let him keep doing it. Well when I got home that night there was a couple of spots of blood in my underwear and the next day I was a little bit sore down there. Do you think that he broke my hymen or he just scratched me accidentally? Also, I don't get that much pleasure out of him fingering me. The only time I ever orgasm is when he "dry humps" (I really hate that term) me and its really hard for me to orgasm. Any suggestions?
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First - you didn't mention how old you are exactly, but I commend you for what sounds like fairly responsible decision making when it comes to sex - and to finding alternatives to actually having intercourse.
It's possible he broke your hymen if he inserted his finger farther than he normally does. You should be able to feel yourself and see if it is still intact. You can google it and see some pretty accurate images of what you're looking for if you're not sure.
On to the orgasming thing. You need to tell him what feels good for you when he is pleasuring you. If he is only putting his fingers in your vagina, you need to direct him to your clitoris. You mention your orgasm by 'dry humping' - that is all clitoral stimulation - not vaginal...so let him know where and how you want to be touched!
Finally - when you are dry humping - make sure he ejaculates away from you. There is a VERY small chance of sperm entering the vagina during dry humping - but it never hurts to be too careful!
Good luck - and be safe!
It's possible he broke your hymen if he inserted his finger farther than he normally does. You should be able to feel yourself and see if it is still intact. You can google it and see some pretty accurate images of what you're looking for if you're not sure.
On to the orgasming thing. You need to tell him what feels good for you when he is pleasuring you. If he is only putting his fingers in your vagina, you need to direct him to your clitoris. You mention your orgasm by 'dry humping' - that is all clitoral stimulation - not vaginal...so let him know where and how you want to be touched!
Finally - when you are dry humping - make sure he ejaculates away from you. There is a VERY small chance of sperm entering the vagina during dry humping - but it never hurts to be too careful!
Good luck - and be safe!
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