I've been with my boyfriend for about 2yrs. and 3 months.. we've been having sex for about 1yr. and 9 months.. I've never orgasmed. i Dont know why.. and i am pretty sure i haven't. Is there something wrong with me? what should i do...
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It's not unusual to hear this from a woman during the first years of a relationship.
Is he taking time to arouse you? How long does foreplay last?
Is he interested in pleasuring you? Does he express concern and patience?
Or is he only going for his climax?
Most women need to learn how to stimulate themselves to an orgasm.
And most men need to be taught about a woman's response so that they can learn how to arouse and not irritate their lady.
While you can take time to explore massage and touch therapy, most women become orgasmic over time with the same partner, and with direct clitoral stimulation.
So, there's probably nothing wrong with you that some patience and an understanding partner can't improve upon.
Good luck.
Let us know how it goes... 8)
Is he taking time to arouse you? How long does foreplay last?
Is he interested in pleasuring you? Does he express concern and patience?
Or is he only going for his climax?
Most women need to learn how to stimulate themselves to an orgasm.
And most men need to be taught about a woman's response so that they can learn how to arouse and not irritate their lady.
While you can take time to explore massage and touch therapy, most women become orgasmic over time with the same partner, and with direct clitoral stimulation.
So, there's probably nothing wrong with you that some patience and an understanding partner can't improve upon.
Good luck.
Let us know how it goes... 8)
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