I've been talking to ths guy for months now and he wants to finger me, im ok with this and i want him to but when it actually comes to it i back out. I'm really self concious about my lower region, i mean i shave but the vagina isn't very attractive! I think im also scared that it's going to hurt considering i've never had sex or been fingered before -does it hurt? And what do i do whilst he fingering me? Thanks all comments appriciated, i amy nearly 16 by the way so dont say 'youre too young'
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Hi shan, why are you self conscious about down there and why do you think it isn't very attractive? Everyone's vagina it different and they can never be unattractive either specially to a guy, as for if it will hurt that depends on if your wet and turned on and relaxed and also if he is gentle and stimulates your clit first to make you wet.
Haven't you ever tried to finger yourself when you have been masturbating?
As for what are you supposed to do, just enjoy it :-)
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I personally just don't think it's very niceeeeee looking! I have confidence issues and am very self concious of what others think of me that is why im nervous and scared. I have fingered myself before yes but because im quite tight it didn't feel amazing, but i guess itll feel better.someone else doing it
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Try not to worry about it as on vagina looks the same just the same as every guys penis is different it doesn't matter what it looks like it is still a thing of beauty to any guy that's lucky enough to see it.
As long as your wet and he doesn't go straight to finger you when your find it a very pleasurable experience when done by someone else. :-)
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That really depends where you are when its being done and what you feel comfortable doing but the main thing to do is just relax and enjoy it.
Is this guy your bf or just a friend? Just be careful that it doesn't lead to more than that though specially without protection as you don't want to get pregnant.
Your welcome and anything else you would like to know just ask :-)
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He's just a friend, i know i probably shouldnt do it considering we are not going out, but i want the experience and i want to be fingered! Sounds a bit desperate. Will like moaning from pleasure come naturally when he does it? :)
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I understand about you want to experience it and no doesn't make you desperate, just make sure he is someone you can trust and not someone that is going to tell people you let him do it as that will make you sound like your easy and you don't want that.
If he hits the right spot yes it will make you moan with pleasure but that depends if he knows what he is doing or not. :-)
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He's really not the type of boy to tell his friends, but before we do do it ill make sure he won't. I do trust him though. Thannk you for all the advice :)
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Your welcome and if you have anything else you would like to know then feel free to ask and if I can help you I will. :-)
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