Well, I just turned 16 years old. My boyfriend and myself have been going out for almost 4 months. He's fingered me before, and now want to try oral sex. I myself have performed oral on him before. The thing I worry about is that I have larger libias than most women do, so I am very self-conscious about letting him see me. Is it normal for some libias to be large? If so does it matter during sex at all, oral or vaginal? Is there any reason to be self-conscious about this issue?
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There is no reason at all for you to be self conscious at all. Labia comes in various sizes. Some are large and chubby, some are long and thin, some are short and close to the body. It doesn't matter. Some guys are really turned on buy this and some don't even notice. The size and shape of a womens labia has no bearing on the sex act at all.
When the time comes for you two to have sex, (with birth control, right?)
don't make a big deal about it, it'll work out fine.
When the time comes for you two to have sex, (with birth control, right?)
don't make a big deal about it, it'll work out fine.
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BBfeet9 is correct,,
Shy girl 16, Ladies labia's are all differant sizes & shapes & testures as are males penises. if this his first time in oral sex, he may not know what is normal and what is not, and just enjoy it because it is yours.
both of you read this article, and the follow the guidelines....1st rule is to have plenty of time, and not be interruped, like plan a weekend away close by, house setting or some other idea along these lines.
RT
1: Shower Power
Taking a shower or bath together before engaging in a tongue lashing can take some of the worries out of the whole experience.
2: Dry Ice
Nothing hurts more than a dry tongue touching a dry clitoris. Fill your mouth with saliva and make sure your fingers and tongue are wet before they dive in for a feast.
3: Variety Is The Spice Of Cunniligus
Be sure to use your tongue in different directions and explore your partners entire vulva.
4: It's Not Just About The Clitoris
Just because you know where to find her clitoris doesn't mean you should dive straight for it. Spend some time exploring while your down under and the clitoris will be more receptive when you get to the pearl on the beach.
5: It's Okay To Kiss And Tell
Don't forget to tell your partner how good she tastes, looks and smells. Many women are very self concious when it comes to cunniligus, putting her at ease will make both your experiences better.
6: The Hands Have it
Use your hands as well as your tongue to stimulate your partner. Some women enjoy having their breasts massaged while a well placed tongue provides even more pleasure for example.
7: Be Gentle
The clitoris contains more nerve endings than the entire head of a penis, too rough a tongue work can really hurt, so be gentle and let your partner be your guide.
8: Let Her Be Your Guide
Listen to your partners body while you play, and you will discover subtle signs like deeper or shallower breathing as she nears orgasm.
9: Every Woman Is Different
Not all women are created equal and what works on one may not on another. Discovering what techniques suit your partner best is the greatest gift you can give her.
10: Don't Stop
Until she tells you too! Many women enjoy stimulation right through their orgasm and beyond. If she tells you to stop the of course do just that but other wise carry on with the fun....
Enjoy this great time together.. and do it often
Now that you are "sweet 16" you should be on the birth control pill, if your parnets think it is or is not a good idea, you are sexually active (and they may not know it at this time) and the chance of a "slip up" is always a growing odds againest you- I had one (see the movie "Juno") You can go with you boyfriend to a planned parnethood clinic and both of you can get the proper education on intercouse and sex, so if you read this - call them NOW. Intercouse is more enjoy able with out the high risk of "making a child at your age"
Enjoy and pass on then write a brief note back on the out come?
Shy girl 16, Ladies labia's are all differant sizes & shapes & testures as are males penises. if this his first time in oral sex, he may not know what is normal and what is not, and just enjoy it because it is yours.
both of you read this article, and the follow the guidelines....1st rule is to have plenty of time, and not be interruped, like plan a weekend away close by, house setting or some other idea along these lines.
RT
1: Shower Power
Taking a shower or bath together before engaging in a tongue lashing can take some of the worries out of the whole experience.
2: Dry Ice
Nothing hurts more than a dry tongue touching a dry clitoris. Fill your mouth with saliva and make sure your fingers and tongue are wet before they dive in for a feast.
3: Variety Is The Spice Of Cunniligus
Be sure to use your tongue in different directions and explore your partners entire vulva.
4: It's Not Just About The Clitoris
Just because you know where to find her clitoris doesn't mean you should dive straight for it. Spend some time exploring while your down under and the clitoris will be more receptive when you get to the pearl on the beach.
5: It's Okay To Kiss And Tell
Don't forget to tell your partner how good she tastes, looks and smells. Many women are very self concious when it comes to cunniligus, putting her at ease will make both your experiences better.
6: The Hands Have it
Use your hands as well as your tongue to stimulate your partner. Some women enjoy having their breasts massaged while a well placed tongue provides even more pleasure for example.
7: Be Gentle
The clitoris contains more nerve endings than the entire head of a penis, too rough a tongue work can really hurt, so be gentle and let your partner be your guide.
8: Let Her Be Your Guide
Listen to your partners body while you play, and you will discover subtle signs like deeper or shallower breathing as she nears orgasm.
9: Every Woman Is Different
Not all women are created equal and what works on one may not on another. Discovering what techniques suit your partner best is the greatest gift you can give her.
10: Don't Stop
Until she tells you too! Many women enjoy stimulation right through their orgasm and beyond. If she tells you to stop the of course do just that but other wise carry on with the fun....
Enjoy this great time together.. and do it often
Now that you are "sweet 16" you should be on the birth control pill, if your parnets think it is or is not a good idea, you are sexually active (and they may not know it at this time) and the chance of a "slip up" is always a growing odds againest you- I had one (see the movie "Juno") You can go with you boyfriend to a planned parnethood clinic and both of you can get the proper education on intercouse and sex, so if you read this - call them NOW. Intercouse is more enjoy able with out the high risk of "making a child at your age"
Enjoy and pass on then write a brief note back on the out come?
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Guys aren't use to vaginas,so you don't have to worry .f any thing they've been waiting for sex and I'm a Guy so trust me
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