Hi all, I'm turning 49 and fell in love with a colleague, who is more than years younger. He doesn't know about it, I'm too shy to make any move already in normal situations, imagine with a much younger colleague. Plus, I'm married. I live my husband and I would never (although never say never, I know) leave him. I started wondering if love is really a monogamist relationship or it has so different grades that even when you have a stable companion about whom you care a lot, still some other missing aspects attract you to another "twin soul". Anyway, besides all these obstacles, there is also the fact he seems to be very shy (based on his behaviour in strictly work topics) - on top of being younger and a colleague. One and half years ago I had the courage to compliment him about his presentation and he thanked me back for being interested and that it had been his pleasure. I hoped I was going to forget or find out he is one of those narcissistic self centered creatures. But he just seems perfect, as I wish each man would be: intelligent, engaged, private, modest and so on. So I keep falling.. in love. I don't do any move besides trying to cross paths in the office, as I'm scared he would be shocked that I dared something. I don't even have occasions to check if he might actually like me. Sometimes I think he notices me when we cross path, but then nothing happens, although I can't see how a shy person can make something happen out of nothing (for the ones who believe in this sort of things, we are a terrible combination being aquarius and virgo zodiac signs, both being very shy). I've read all your posts and I really like your energy, way of supporting each other in an honest way. So here I am with my story Any advise how to move things, at least to understand of there is any chance, are highly appreciated..:) Thank you
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