having sex for the first time was painful and there was quite a lot of blood. the second time, is it less painful, more pleasurable and no blood?
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Yes! There may be blood but there likely won't be any. It may be uncomfortable, however, the more you have sex the more comfortable it gets :-)
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Well in all reality it all depends on you, your partner, and your preparation. If you experienced a lot of pain initially then, if there isn't much done before your next session there will most likely be pain again. The pain will most likely subside much sooner, but if you want to experience little to no pain then I suggest a lot of forplay. oral sex and even a pre-sex orgasm from your part (assuming your the female) will not only really lubricate things, reduce the friction, and increase the pleasure, but it will also help your vagina to relax and be more receptive of your partner.
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Yes, it is better the second time.
The first time, you're losing your virginity so it isn't going to feel so great. For me, it wasn't extremely pleasurable, but it wasn't awful.
The second time, it still kind of hurt a little, because it was only my second time, but it was better.
If you haven't been sexually active for very long, it's (obviously) something new to your body, and your body needs to get used to it. Once you've passed the awkward painful stage, you can enjoy yourself and find out what you like.
The first time, you're losing your virginity so it isn't going to feel so great. For me, it wasn't extremely pleasurable, but it wasn't awful.
The second time, it still kind of hurt a little, because it was only my second time, but it was better.
If you haven't been sexually active for very long, it's (obviously) something new to your body, and your body needs to get used to it. Once you've passed the awkward painful stage, you can enjoy yourself and find out what you like.
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