i got my cartalidge pierced in may, and i just took out the earring that the girl had put in. and i went to put a hoop in and theres is a hard red bump. im scared i dont wanna have to close it back up, and when i first got it i always forgot to clean it...yeah stupid. but now i am cleaning it and i dont wanna close it up it hurtto get it pierced and it still hurts when somone touchs it. HELP!