me and my gf were in the cinemas, We werer BOTH OBVIOUSLY FULLY CLOTHED.... and we were just kissing in our own seatss. i was sat on left and she was on the right. soo she tilted on her left and i tiltled on my right so we could kiss easily.. and then i put HER LEG between BOTH OF MINE- BUT WE WERE STILL IN OUR OWN SEATS so it was locked and we continued kissing...IS THER AWAY THAT MY PENIS COULD HAVE GONE INSIDE HER VAGINA ??? WE WERE BOTH FULLY CLOTHED AND EVRYTHING AND WE WERE BOTH STIL IN OUR OWN SEATS.. JUST HAD HER LEGS CLOCKED BETWEEN MINE AND I DNT REMEMBER MY PENIS GOING ANYWAY NEAR IT.. and honestly is there anyway my penis could have made contact wihth her vagina AS WE WERE BOTH IN OUR OWN SEATS...!!! and if it did which we were both fully clothed - it cant doo anything righht??.. and i had an erection and i could feel few drops if anything of precum in my boxerss did not ejaculate, it was drop or two of precum just in my boxers and it went damp str8 away..... as i felt wetnes in my boxers.... AM I FINEE??? please tell me i am just being such a m***n for thinking like this... and please no stupid answers.. i just want these thoughts to go from some proffesional advice!! thankyou!.. once again we were NOT ONTOP OF EACH OTHER OR ANYTHING JUST KISSING IN OUR OWN SEATS WHITH HER LEG LOCKED STR8 INTO MINE.. LIKE IT WAS PUSHING AGAINST MY PENIS.. IS THER ANYWAY MY PENIS CAN MAKE CONTACT WD HER VAGINA??? WE WERE BOTH IN OUR OWN SEATS... AND FULLY CLOTHED... NOT GOING TO HAVE SEX TILL WE ARE MARRRIED...
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Dear Steven
From what you have said there should be no chance of pregnancy. It is good that you are waiting until you are married before you have sex.
Precum can contain sperm, but they would have to travel (swim) through your boxers and outerwear before reaching her. She would have felt if your penis was anywhere near her vagina. But it doesn't sound as though it was.
You need to think about your sexual contact, and you might want to talk about various scenarios, for if you were wearing shorts, your penis could possibly poke through your shorts' leg. If she was wearing a skirt, then contact could be made with her underwear, which if lacy, could allow sperm through. Also, if she were wearing a thong, the fabric could expose her genitals. You didn't say exactly what you were wearing.
If you have other sexual contact (oral/mutual masturbation) you will have to be careful that semen does not get transferred to her vagina. You both need to be sure about what contact you will allow, and your cultural and/or religious convictions will have an important bearing on that.
Hope this helps. If you need more help, just ask (privately if you prefer)
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we were both in our seats fully clothed!!! both had jeans and underwear on.... just my legs locked hers thats all so we could kiss easily coz we tilted in our sides.... AS WE WERE BOTH ON OUR SEATS.. THERE NO CHANCE HER WHOLE LEG WOULD HAVE BEEN LOCKED IN MINE.. coz we were both sat in our OWN seats...or else id have to pull her into mine to get her WHOLE leg locked in mine??
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Sperm would be highly unlikely to pass through two pairs of jeans and two sets of underwear, even if your penis was near her vagina. But It doesn't sound as if it was anywhere near. Also was it during her fertile days? I don't think, from what you have said, that there is any chance of pregnancy.
There seems to be something still bothering you that I am missing. Maybe you don't understand the reproductive system too well, and would like some explanation of how sex works. If so, feel free to ask.
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yh im just over thinking but thats just me as always... BUT U HAVE REALLY CHEERED ME UP!! and im nt worried anymorre! and we went cinemas the day after she came off her period...
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and i licked her boobs.. does that affect anything?... i didnt think it did thats why i daint mention it!
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No it doesn't affect pregnancy directly. It might lower her resistance though (and yours) which might lead to unintended activity.
Why not sign in and talk about this in more detail so you don't have worries in the future?
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about fertile days.. my gf is 30 day cycl.. she came on 19th march.. and this happened 25th ( day after her period)..? soo thats no where near close to fertile days right? and she sed my penis was no where near her vagina wen my legs lockd hers.. and we both wee in our own seats fully clothed.. so no worries right..am i just being paranoid?
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I think you are worrying too much. But is is good to be cautious.
Probably nowhere her fertile days (although you can never be 100% certain).
Penis nowhere near vagina and both fully clothed (two layers).
Take care
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Dear Steven
No there is no way to get your penis in her vagina while clothed like that, without opening your jeans first. Even then it would take a lot of effort.
There are, of course other ways she could get pregnant by sperm transfer manually. Also her hymen could rupture other than by inserting your penis. Where are you from; and what are the cultural or religious implications?
It is good to think things through in advance rather than regret it afterwards, as so many do.
As I said before, If you want to talk about this in detail and understand the workings of your body and hers, feel free to ask. Ask as basic a question as you like. If you sign in, you can maybe talk more freely. If your girlfriend wants help, I'll talk to her also.
Hope to be able to help you further if you so require.
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Dear Steven
I'm glad I could help. I am also glad you respect her. I hope she appreciates that.
I'd rather educate beforehand than advise afterwards. A fence at the top of the cliff is better than just an ambulance at the bottom.
She probably understands the workings of sex better than you (women often do understand these things better - but not always). When it comes to wanting to understand about sex, I have yet to come across a stupid question.
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