I have beeen with my girlfriend for 7 months now. She has never been with a girl before me, just men. She's only had sex once with her ex and didn't like it. (he ruined it for her). She doesn't like to get penetrated but I do. Lately whenever we have sex she just wants me to go down on her and she does the same to me. I am getting bored with it. I want to try new things but she isn't spontaneous. I have to direct her where to go all of the time and I feel like she should know how to please me by now. We've recently bought a dildo but have yet to use it. Our sex life is boring and I find myself daydreaming about my ex. Please help!!