Masterbating feel good?

You can try objects like pens/markers (make sure it doesn't have any sharp edges) - one of the rounded jumbo sharpies is reported to work for some people. Otherwise you could take a condom and stuff it with some soft material and use that. Or just use your fingers.

You're at an age that sexual impulses are many and sometimes strong.  At age 14, most males & females are not emotionally or psychologically prepared for intercourse - though the bodies certainly may be.

 

As posted by others, you would be well-advised to stick to masturbation for sexual relief and gratification.   As "Soccergirl_97" posted, whatever you use, be sure it's clean. Vaginal and urinary tract infections are nothing to mess with.  A raging gynecological infection could - at the extreme - lead to loss of ability to bear children.

 

Digital (finger) masturbation is a great, simple way to begin.  After washing & rinsing your hands, find a quite, private place to be.  If your parents provide you privacy in your bedroom, that's a good & safe place.  There's really no "right" way to do things, as long as you don't harm yourself.  With filed and/or trimmed fingernails, your fingers are excellent "tools" with which to self-gratify.  The outer lips will likely be sensitive, so consider a lubricant like K-Y jelly for external stimulation.  Simply begin with exploring - at age 14, it's a perfect time to get to know your body.

 

You can also use the K-Y on your clitoris, though your youthful vaginal secretions will probably be enough lubricant.  Simply lay back and enjoy yourself.

 

If you choose to penetrate your vaginal opening, use objects that are 1) clean, 2) smooth, and 3) easy to hold onto.  As you work yourself up into pleasure-filled feelings, you may lose a bit of hand control.  Don't worry about it.  If you drop your "toy," simply pick it up and resume.

 

If you have yet to have an orgasm in your short life, they are blessings to the human body.  Don't be afraid to let yourself go.  The contractions - spasms, if you will - are quite enjoyable.  The more you self-pleasure, the more aware and comfortable you'll become.

 

I hope this is helpful for you.  Best wishes as you transfer from childhood to adolescence to adulthood.  Just remember: there's nothing "grown up" about having penile/vaginal intercourse.  Discover your own body's wonder BEFORE letting a boy talk you into sex.

Im around your same age and i masterbate all the time its really good feeling , u watch something that will make you get atrative and make sure no ones around , then grab your fingers and you can go in and out or just go in circles !

First of all I found out that a if your 14  year old girl your at its most turned on stage trust me im14 also and you will regret it after you have sex so don't have sex plus you mite get ads even if you use a condom. When you turn 15 you won't be so turned on I have not had sex so don't good luck. P.s. I don't have any tips on masterbating sorry.:$:-|

Hey I just use my fingers but i wish I could find something better

NO! OK NOT NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!

im done having sex and it feels so good!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

No just no no

I am almost 13 yes old I really want to have sex but don't know where and how to do that with out my parents finding out and I'm tired of beating my meat what do I do.

I am 13 and I feel the same I really wanna have sex but I can't without my parents finding out I masterbate a lot and it feels so good but I just wanna take a step up so there is this girl in my school that's a s*** and has screwed other girls in my year and I feel like that would be the best way to go cause I don't need to worry about condoms or pregnancy and it's just easier to hide and I wanna try that

You could use a mini m&m tube thats what I use best part about it no one will question it being in your room just clean it before hand