i have this really weird obsession that i need to know what my girlfriend is doing all the time, wen im not at hers i text her lots to find out what shes doing and she just ignores the text or says "dunno" its really stressfull. shes dumped me a few times for it and i dont know how to stop it or help it. i try keeping busy but then the thought of not knowing what shes doing scares me and i have to stop what im doing and go and sit on the computer and wait to see if she comes on msn, and if shes not on msn i get really scared and just wory for ages, sometimes i dont sleep because of it.
what can i do to stop this? am i mentally ill?
what can i do to stop this? am i mentally ill?
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Celebrity
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You will lose her if you carry on. She will feel trapped.
If you want to txt her, just say sweet thing, dont ask what she is doing.
You sound young, this might get better as you get older. You will learn how to control it.
Another idea is show less interest, by txt, an you might find the rolls reverse
If you want to txt her, just say sweet thing, dont ask what she is doing.
You sound young, this might get better as you get older. You will learn how to control it.
Another idea is show less interest, by txt, an you might find the rolls reverse
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im 15, and i did loose her last weekend, but its not just her, itsa few other people i care about i do it to, i just really need 2 know how to stop it or get help? cos i still do it to my ex-girlfreind, i think it could be because she said 2 me once that she might cheat on me in the summer and that really scared me and i dont really trust her, and now im scared of her getting with someone else
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