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I was raped 3 years ago and i need help telling my new boyfriend

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For starters i'm sorry to hear that that happened to you, and can understand how you are feeling about whether or not to tell your boyfriend. If I was in this situation I would tell him, merely on the fact that it you feel uncomfortable about having sex because it will be on you mind about him not knowing about the rape, he's going to feel you are hiding secrets from him and could get paranoid. Try and explain your feelings about sex and tell him you have concerns about him leaving if you tell him about it. It will probably be a big shock, but keeping things hidden especially from someone that you can see yourself with could end a relationship. But seriously it is entirely up to you whether you want him to know or not. I don't want to feel i've pushed you into an uncomfortable position.

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Im so sorry to hear that, Im only 13 but like he wil be fine with it. I know if my girlfriend got raped i wouldnt dump her.

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