I am 15 years old (almost 16 in a couple days) and i had sex with two guys in about 2 weeks. I know what your thinking i must be a hoe. Honestly i dint know why i did it. before this happened i never had sex before. when i had sex with the first guy with a condom my period was already a week late. this usually isnt normal for me but it happened the month before and i got my period so i wasnt concerned. after i had sex, i still havent got my period. then i started talking to a boy i really liked and one thing lead to another and we had unprotected sex. i know it was bad to fdo and i regret it deeply. now im almost 3 weeks late. I feel so down on myself, so embarrassed. to make things worse, my mom looked through my phone the day after i had sex with the second guy and read through my messages with my best friend and realized what i did and how i was nervous i was pregnant and they i have smoked and drank before. they also have a tracker on my phone and found out that i wass leaving my phone places annd going out to other places so they wouldnt know. she told my dad and they went out and bought plan b and a pregnacy test. I took the plan b i took the pregancy test and it was negative but still no period. i truly and a good kid and my paetns are so disappointed and told mme that im a w**** and such a disappointment. they cant even look at me the same. i dont know if they can ever love me again. they are making me quit powder puff and i cant hang out with my friends ever again or have a boyfriend. I feel like my life is over, they told me to kiss my sophmore year goodbye. this was not worth it at all
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well sarah let me put it this way very simple you are a w**** ,and if i was your parent i would do the same thing ,you should know better your parent im sure didnt raised you like that thats a big mistake you did and ruined your life as far as being a virgin, so you did the crime now do the time [figure of speech] so now all you can do is be a good girl and have some respect for your parents or go out there and f**k another boy
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Hi Sarah when exactly did you take the plan b how long after you had sex? Are your parents strictly religious by any chance? Don't worry yourself I'm sure they will forgive you and no parent will ever stop loving there children no matter what they have done, there just mad at you at the moment because I'm there eyes your still their baby girl give it time and they will start to trust you again.
If you had been under stress then that can delay your period and so can having sex the first time, taking plan b can also screw your cycle up as well for a while. How long after you took plan b did you take the pregnancy test?
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Thank you so much, as i deserve the comments the other poster put. i am a w**** for what i did, it wasnt the right thing to do. I took the pregnancy test before the plan b pill. it came out negative. but i was scared that i was pregnant. and since i just had sex with the second guy the night before taking the test, i knew that there is still a chance i am pregnant from that guy and that wouldnt show up on a pregnancy test since it is so early.
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my god her own parents called her a w**** im just agreeing with the parents and they did the right .thing thats what wrong with society now day they want to baby them and not be firm on them and hold them accountable for their wrong action" o poor little girl :no thats not the way to approach a 15 yr old baby thats having sex not only is it wrong its illegal .im sorry i spoke my mind for gods sake??yes maybe i did do some wrong things or mistakes in the past but if somebody would have whoop my ass maybe the outcome would have been differnt?
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I take it you know about ovulation and conception and how long sperm can survive?
You shouldn't be so hard on yourself everyone makes mistakes and as I said in the previous post you was only doing what other girls your age are doing these days, try not to worry and I'm sure everything will turn out ok :)
If you have any more questions feel free to ask.
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I know about that. but i was already a week late the first time i had sex which is unnormal for me. then i had sex i was two weeks late. two and a half when i took the test. Then took plan b the next day after having sex with the second guy. He didnt ejaculate insside of me, he pulled out and did on my stomach. it was dark but maybe it dripped down there??? i dont know im so nervous and i cant talk to my parents because all they will say is how i am a disappointment and definitely pregnant and a w****. Im almost 16. Im going o vacation this weekend to celebrate my birthday with my best friend but i know they are going to make it hell and not fun at all. I dont want to go anymore neither do they but we are going. I feel like my life is over. My parents catch everything wrong i do and now they will never trust me. if i knew the consquences for this and knew that if i had sex and snuck out a couple times and smoke and drank i would never be able to hang out with my friends again, i would take it all back in a heart beat. If im pregnant, im scared for what my parents will do to me. thank you for taking the time to read this
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She also didn't come on this site to have someone like you tell her exactly the same as her parents have she came here for advice!
Ok yes she did wrong and she admitted that, if kids had better sex education in schools at a younger age and parents actually took the time to talk to there kids about contraception and pregnancy most teen pregnancies would be avoided.
Shouting, banning, grounding or any kind of punishment won't stop it happening these days all it is more likely to do is cause them to resent there parents and want to get into even more trouble. You need to live in the 21st century now and how things have changed from when you was growing up, having sex under 16 might be illegal but so is giving your child a whooping on the ass now illegal.
There are a lot younger girls about these days that's are having sex and getting pregnant, Sarah has learnt her lesson from that and in the future make sure to always use contraception and carry condoms with her.
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Plan B can make your next several periods early or late. You are also young and under a great deal of stress. They all can contribute to making your period late.
Condoms are very effective when used properly. Plan B is very effective when used within 72 hours - and he pulled out! Odds are that you are NOT pregnant.
OK, you had sex. It does NOT make you a bad person. Your life is NOT over. Lots of teens do what you did. They get through it and so will you.
Your parents, despite what they said, still love you. When you do have kids you'll understand why. They're disappointed and want to protect you as long as they can. They're expressing their frustration on you.
Hope it helps.
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Alright i get it im a w****. i didnt come on here to talk about that i came on here to talk about how to fix my mistakes and figure out what to do next. thanks but you arent helping. i know what i did is wrong, thats not what i need
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You know you have done wrong so now you just have to prove to your parents you can be trusted and that you won't do it again, I do think your parents are being a little to hard on you though over this, it's going to take time but they will forgive you and start to trust you again trust me.
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You are just being totally ridicules guest and your just adding to her stress!
I am not saying she should carry on doing it what I said and also medic dan said is she has just done what most girls her age do these days and she has learnt her lesson the hard way.
If you can't come on this site and give someone advice and support that they are asking for then please refrain from commenting on posts like this in the future because if that's all the advice you can give its no wonder that some youngsters are so rebellious towards there parents.
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